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Old 10-04-2017, 08:56 AM
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Originally Posted by marketa View Post
Thank you all for all your kindness and support. Sometimes things don't work the way we want to. I ended up having a miscarriage. In a way, the decision decision was made for me. I'm just praying for the opportunity to actually give birth to a healthy baby one day. But until then I guess I'll try to find something to learn from it. I think I can provide good support to anyone who is going through any of the experiences I've been through
Oh no! I'm so sorry. I know the timing wasn't perfect but I'm sure you're still very sad. My heart goes out to you. Be good to yourself in the coming weeks and give yourself permission to feel everything you feel. I hope your boyfriend is supportive of you. Sending a big hug.
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Old 10-04-2017, 09:04 AM
Location: Denver CO
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Marketa.
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Old 10-04-2017, 12:06 PM
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I am so sorry to learn this. Be kind to yourself, and seek out others who are understanding and supportive during this difficult and sad time.
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Old 10-13-2017, 08:35 AM
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The father of the baby is a pos. Sorry about that...he's old enough to know unzipping his pants could result in that and now he wants to wash his hands of any responsibility. I won't tell you what I think I would do-- but if I were you right away speak with a counselor, hotline or social worker, as in right away to help you wade through and figure out the best option for you.

Damm, sorry Marketa for your loss... edited after I saw above you had a miscarriage...please seek out counseling to help you through this time not alone
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Old 10-16-2017, 09:05 AM
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I am sorry for your loss. I mentioned in my earlier post (somewhere lost in middle of the threat) that I am same age as you and recently went thru a miscarriage. After 2 months, I am not able to talk about it and finally told my mother. Below is a little entry I made in my journal after my miscarriage that I wanted to share

"Life feels surreal after a miscarriage, goals go on hold as the soul heals. Its even harder when you don't know how and what to heal. Hopefully I get out of this haze for everything is god's blessing even this stage in life. Even the broken heart is a gift".
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