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Any thoughts on pregnancy after say 38-40? Hubby and I are not there yet, but are considering baby #3. By the time we got our act together we would be at leat 39. Our kids are 3 1/2 and 41/2 now. Anyone else out there in this age group pregnant or considering getting pregnant. Are we nuts? Thanks in advance.
Any thoughts on pregnancy after say 38-40? Hubby and I are not there yet, but are considering baby #3. By the time we got our act together we would be at leat 39. Our kids are 3 1/2 and 41/2 now. Anyone else out there in this age group pregnant or considering getting pregnant. Are we nuts? Thanks in advance.
You are not nuts...if you want another go ahead. Just be sure to evaluate your own risks for pregnancy and understand that risks associated with certain deformities and health problems does increase with age. As long as you are comfortable taking that on I say go for it! Good luck!
My li'l sister's son was born at 38. My mom's last & 7th child (aforementioned 38-yr old, baby sister!) was born when my mom was 38. Both babies were completely healthy, no problems. Both moms were also in good health so I'm sure that makes a difference, too.
My sister's baby will be 3 this year.
My mom's "baby" will be 41 this year.
Best of luck to you. The luckiest children are definitely from loving homes with parents who prepare & desire them. Sounds like you have that going for you & your children. That's the best part...VV
The luckiest children are definitely from loving homes with parents who prepare & desire them.
I *so* agree with this.
My mom (and her twin sister) were born to a 42 year old mom who had two strapping teenage boys. They were very loved and wanted. Good luck!
Thanks everyone. Just the shot in the arm I needed. I am aware of the risks, and a luckily have no genetic issues in either of our families. Well, we will see what happens.
My SIL had her first (and only) baby at 41, healthy as can be. I would say talk to your doctor first and see what you can do to have the greatest chances of conceiving a healthy baby - ie vitamins, healthy diet and the like. The older you get, the more likely some types of deformities may occur. You may want to do a little research before making a decision. Good luck!
Thanks everyone. Just the shot in the arm I needed. I am aware of the risks, and a luckily have no genetic issues in either of our families. Well, we will see what happens.
My mom was 2 weeks shy of 45 when she had me, and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. Added benefit for her - I "kept her young"! Best of luck to you!
Just know the risks and decide for yourself. I think that's best. There are plenty of great stories about moms having kids after 40 (I know a number myself, including my sister) but risks DO go up, and admitting this and figuring out how you would do if you were one of those who had an issue is important, I think.
I had 2 children biologically, and for my 3rd I adopted. I just didn't want that risk (plus I'd always thought about adopting). But the risk IS higher, and I was not OK w/the %risk.
I was 40 with my 1st son,43 with my 2nd son and 47 with my daughter,all healthy, smart wonderful kids and a great source for keep me young[as is my husband who is 12 years younger than I,but that's another thread!]
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