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as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
I disagree with the idea that women don't want sex as much as men. I know I certainly do. It's just that women tend to be more selective with who they chose to have sex w/. I do have casual sex but I am very selective with who I do it with
I disagree with the idea that women don't want sex as much as men. I know I certainly do. It's just that women tend to be more selective with who they chose to have sex w/. I do have casual sex but I am very selective with who I do it with
IMO, which is once again different from the norm, women like and enjoy sex more than men do. They just need to be discreet about it, because otherwise they may come accross as "slutty". There is no easier sex in life than vacation sex, for this very reason. Few men worry about what other think, every woman cares about what others think.
BTW, the reason I made a harsh remark to you yesterday, is because you were generalizing an entire race of people and were rude about that - I was simply trying to point it out to you.
I do often wonder though, maybe someone here can answer this question:
Roughly 80% of available women have sex with roughly 10-20% of available men, who almost always sleep with multiple women on different nights of the week and such. Whats curious to me, is that these women are fully aware that these guys are sleeping with 4 or 5 different women in a week, but rarely mind. In fact it sort of becomes a challenge to them, to see if they can become the one. Why is that?
IMO, which is once again different from the norm, women like and enjoy sex more than men do. They just need to be discreet about it, because otherwise they may come accross as "slutty". There is no easier sex in life than vacation sex, for this very reason. Few men worry about what other think, every woman cares about what others think.
BTW, the reason I made a harsh remark to you yesterday, is because you were generalizing an entire race of people and were rude about that - I was simply trying to point it out to you.
I do often wonder though, maybe someone here can answer this question:
Roughly 80% of available women have sex with roughly 10-20% of available men, who almost always sleep with multiple women on different nights of the week and such. Whats curious to me, is that these women are fully aware that these guys are sleeping with 4 or 5 different women in a week, but rarely mind. In fact it sort of becomes a challenge to them, to see if they can become the one. Why is that?
From my personal experience, the guy never tells me that he is sleeping with 4 or 5 different women. Usually, he says that he is only having sex w/ me. Now, he may not be telling the truth but I would never sleep with a guy who told me he was having sex with 4 or 5 other women
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They just need to be discreet about it, because otherwise they may come accross as "slutty". There is no easier sex in life than vacation sex, for this very reason. Few men worry about what other think, every woman cares about what others think.
Yes, I am very discreet about it. I don't sleep with co-workers or discuss that I have casual sex with acquaintances/friends because people will tell all your business. It's none of their business.
From my personal experience, the guy never tells me that he is sleeping with 4 or 5 different women. Usually, he says that he is only having sex w/ me. Now, he may not be telling the truth but I would never sleep with a guy who told me he was having sex with 4 or 5 other women
Yes, I am very discreet about it. I don't sleep with co-workers or discuss that I have casual sex with acquaintances/friends because people will tell all your business. It's none of their business.
Why would I guy tell he is sleeping with 4 or 5 different women anyway? He could be lying and you would still believe him?
Few men worry about what other think, every woman cares about what others think.
Another sweeping and ridiculously inaccurate generalization. There is no such reality where "always, never, every, or no one" even exists.
"Every woman cares about what others think?" Funny, at least 75% of the adult women I know couldn't care less, excluding their bosses, whom one necessarily must occasionally cater to. In my experience, men care as much or more than women what others think. And in the final analysis, most secure and successful people couldn't give a damn about what anyone thinks about them or their choices.
as a man I think our sex drive is our own curse. the things we do for sex are things women would never do, like buy lots of porn or pay for it. Women can make tons of money off of mens horniness but no man can make the same claim. men waste tons of money on sex and have even ruined their careers and marriages over it. Elliot Spitzer being an example. I know of no woman that would risk her neck like that.
Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.
Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
With all due respect, your sex drive only seems like a curse because you obviously have no regular outlet to release your sexual tension; therefore, your sex drive becomes a burden because the tension keeps building up and it never goes away. It really a mild form of torture.
And to add to the frustration, you know for a fact that most women can have sex whenever they want, to the the point where women will boast that sex is no big deal to them.
Well, to get to the heart of the matter, it's really not your fault, and I'm here to tell you that the two fundamental reasons why you don't have a sex life is because:
1. Prostitution is illegal America
2. American culture is a very prudish, antisocial, overly religious, sexually repressed society that is full of erotophobic people.
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