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I think your main problem is that you mentioned women don't find you attractive -- not that women in general have all this control over you or have some type of conniving plan to deprive you. It's not an individual woman's job to provide you with sex.
Why don't women find you attractive? Do you think its purely based upon your looks or maybe does it have something to do with the lousy attitude you have? It seems to be a pattern whereby men who don't lift a finger to take care of themselves or make an effort to dress well get all upset when women don't want to talk to them.
If you're living in America, looking attractive is not enough to get the women here.
Besides, there are plenty of not so good looking Western men who live outside of the Western countries and have no problem getting the attention of good looking young women.
The male sex drive should not be used an excuse for your stupid actions. If you do not not get sex, you just jerk it like me. I personally try not to jerk 2 days in a row. 4 times a week is fine.
Some women are, not most, in my experience. If sex is important to a man in a relationship, it is his responsibility not only to communicate this to potential partners, but also to find a woman with whom he is sexually compatible.
Most women are not going to be sexually compatible with men. It's a myth.
Most men have the ability to have sex, and romantic relationships with MULTIPLE women at one time, and if you do a cursory review of indigenous civilizations around the world, most these civilizations were polygamous societies and it was this type of society that gave birth to most of the human race.
So in other words, down though the ages there have been more polygamous societies then monogamous societies, and it's partly for the reason of addressing the male sex drive which is capable of impregnating multiple women at one time
Some guys do that know they will never see a woman again. The same can be said for women; though, female prisoners are hardly ever critizeed in the way that men are when they turn to the same sex for affection.
The male sex drive is a curse when married. The wife will not want sex or allow you to masturbate.
This is what happens when you rely on ONE woman for sex.
This kind of behavior is pervasive in monogamous relationships and it proves that sex is the only power women have over men, and it proves that women can be apathetic towards a man's sexuality even if the man is her husband.
Actually - more of my girlfriends have had issues with having a higher sex drive than the person they are seeing than the reverse.
I have seen this as well. But what I have found is that women in Western countries are able to enjoy a healthy sex life (due to birth control pills), they're able to mature feeling comfortable in their sexuality, and because they little or no required standards set by men that they have to meet; they have no sexual inhibitions and their sexually is much more developed then the average man as a result.
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Originally Posted by Dewdrop93
Here's the thing with me. I enjoy sex. Tremendously. But I was always very picky about who I had sex with. Why? Because it can be a very intimate experience. .
Most women are picky, but the reason why this is so is due to biology and the fact that women are looking to mate with the strongest most powerful male they can attract. Power and strength is all relative, but fundamentally, women want to have sex with men who will give them some kind of advantage in life (i.e, easily life, protection strong/smart babies).
Single women are sexually frustrated too, make no mistake.
And that's because most women CHOSE to be single which subsequently leads to their own frustration.
For example, I know of a very pretty 30ish old woman who is single and very frustrated because she's not married or has a boyfriend, but after questioning her, I found that she had unrealistic expectations and she turned down numerous decent men all because they did not have a house, a degree, or they had kids; so she feels she's taking on "baggage" therefore none of those men weren't qualified.
Men on the other hand are FORCED into isolation and live sexually frustrated lives unless they're natural extroverts and they actively take on the responsibility to pursue women.
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