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Old 03-11-2012, 02:57 PM
 
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Its also a curse if your like me and women just don't find you attractive. All it is a burden to bear because it doesn't do me any good whatsoever. I wish there were drugs on the market that could get rid of my sex drive but I know they will never exist because the male sex drive is a lucrative market.

Women always control the sex and they do all the choosing. Men have no say or control in this matter. Most women are sexually apathetic and they use our own desperation against us. I admit, I envy their ability to control themselves.
This.
If I could get rid of all the time I spent frustrated and unproductive I could only imagine how much time I'd suddenly have on my hands. The drive is like a cancer that kills productivity in anything I'm doing, whether I'm at work or at the university, half the time is spent trying to shake it out of my head so i can focus on what I do. And finally get some peace of mind.
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Old 03-11-2012, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Apache Junction
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I'm not a man, but I don't find a man's sex drive a "curse" whatsoever.
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Old 03-11-2012, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Apache Junction
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No, to women it's more of an annoyance and inconvenience when in a relationship with a man.
Not all women. Nor are all men dogs. Generalizations are what pushes our genders apart.
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Old 03-11-2012, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Apache Junction
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Difference is, most women prefer being single.
Really? Can you source that please?
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Old 03-11-2012, 04:48 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Difference is, most women prefer being single.
You are so right! I wonder why so many women are in relationships and married... Maybe you should tell them that they prefer being single since they don't seem to know it. I'll be sure to tell my husband that I just found out that I prefer being single.

Did you know that most men are unable to orgasm? Yup.
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Old 03-11-2012, 07:32 PM
 
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Most women are not going to be sexually compatible with men. It's a myth.

Most men have the ability to have sex, and romantic relationships with MULTIPLE women at one time, and if you do a cursory review of indigenous civilizations around the world, most these civilizations were polygamous societies and it was this type of society that gave birth to most of the human race.

So in other words, down though the ages there have been more polygamous societies then monogamous societies, and it's partly for the reason of addressing the male sex drive which is capable of impregnating multiple women at one time
The reason many societies were polygamous is that males were used for war. Also in these polygamous societies castration of non-powerful men was common. Eunuchs don't have much of a sex drive. That's really the only way polygamous societies can work - use the excess males in wars or castrate them.
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Old 03-11-2012, 07:35 PM
 
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The reason many societies were polygamous is that males were used for war. Also in these polygamous societies castration of non-powerful men was common. Eunuchs don't have much of a sex drive. That's really the only way polygamous societies can work - use the excess males in wars or castrate them.
Your points are noted.
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Old 03-11-2012, 09:00 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Difference is, most women prefer being single.

Difference is, you can't really know this.
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Old 03-12-2012, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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You are so right! I wonder why so many women are in relationships and married... Maybe you should tell them that they prefer being single since they don't seem to know it. I'll be sure to tell my husband that I just found out that I prefer being single.

Did you know that most men are unable to orgasm? Yup.
And here I thought most women were trying to trap men into relationships. I learn something new about myself here everyday!
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Old 03-13-2012, 06:16 AM
 
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Because a.)it's not true, and b.)it has nothing to do with this thread. Yet again you're derailing a topic to present your low opinion of women as fact.
But the whole issue with mens frustration(and thus the sex drive being a curse) is women turning men down for sex.

You wrote somewhere above that if someone randomly asked for sex(men or women) that person were likely to be turned down, that's not really true for women asking men for sex.

if average joe asks women for sex stragith out he'll face a hundred women before 1 says yes,
if average jane does the same she wouldn't reach double digits.

If for example a random girl at school(say 300~ that I see in corridors and lunchrooms etc regularly) would ask me chances are I've already thought of her naked on at least a couple occasions before.
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