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Old 03-08-2012, 12:49 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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Men should never underestimate the importance of masturbation. There is a saying that I think is pretty accurate: "Masturbate before making any big decision." Your head is more clear and you're able to think more logically.
This. Also, you should never have to pay for porn if you have your own internet connection. Well, I guess if you're paying for the connection the porn isn't technically free, but the more you watch the cheaper it is.

 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:05 PM
 
Location: West Los Angeles
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In a healthy relationship, no one "controls" the sex, either the frequency of it, duration or intensity. It just happens because both want it equally.
I don't think the OP is referring to "healthy" relationships, it seems like a singles issue. Pretty much most male issues on this site are singles issues, not relationship ones (just my observation cause most threads spawn off frustration).

Anway, OP, I understand why you ask this, and I think it CAN be a curse if you look at it that way. I feel like I've been there before at one point in my life.

What you need to do is get yourself to a place in life where you are in control, and essentially you have something to offer sexually.

Plus, don't buy into the "sexually apathetic female" mantra, that's what they want you to believe (especially single girls).
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:09 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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I'll say that the male sex drive can indeed be a curse, particularly if your social skills aren't very good, if you're exceedingly ugly, or if there just isn't a suitable woman to pursue.

Everyone, every once in a while, has a day where they really want it to the point of it being nearly unbearable...
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:24 PM
 
Location: NC
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Would you rather be a eunuch?
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:27 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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It's a fact in my experience.

If you're not getting sex, then you're doing something wrong somewhere

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Is that a fact or just your wishful thinking?
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:27 PM
 
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When women arent attracted to you yes having a high sex drive is a nuisance
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:27 PM
 
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If what I say is not true then why are there are so many sexless marriages out there. there will always be exceptions to the rule but it does not disprove my point that i feel most women are sexually apathetic.
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:28 PM
 
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Would you rather be a eunuch?
What's wrong with being a eunich?
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:34 PM
 
Location: SWUS
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Not having your balls, for one.
 
Old 03-08-2012, 01:34 PM
 
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