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But the whole issue with mens frustration(and thus the sex drive being a curse) is women turning men down for sex.
Women turning men down for sex is more common than the other way around. Something you will have to learn to live with. Concentrate on other things when that happens: go out with your buddies, go to the gym watch your favorite tv show, play some video games, etc.
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if average joe asks women for sex stragith out he'll face a hundred women before 1 says yes,
if average jane does the same she wouldn't reach double digits
There are some things in life we can’t really do much but just accept them as they are.
Women turning men down for sex is more common than the other way around. Something you will have to learn to live with. Concentrate on other things when that happens: go out with your buddies, go to the gym watch your favorite tv show, play some video games, etc.
There are some things in life we can’t really do much but just accept them as they are.
dude...reading comprehension...
I was questioning her statements, not the widely known facts...
But the whole issue with mens frustration(and thus the sex drive being a curse) is women turning men down for sex.
Then find a woman who doesn't turn down sex. You must be running in the wrong circles. I don't know any woman who turns down sex. Most women I know pester their men for sex and the men can't keep up.
I agree with "lifeexplorer." From what I've read and understand, scientifically it takes women longer to be mentally and hence sexually stimulated. That is why FOREPLAY is imperative for a women. Foreplay doesn't have to always include physical activities. It includes romantic dinners, genuine compliments given in person, and any other sort of romantic gesture. Remember, females are extremely emotional beings!
I'm a man , and yes, I absolutely believe our sexual drive is a curse, guys (me included) tend to lose their minds over females while those are able to remain cold headed in every situation, the result is catastrophic and creates awful misunderstandings or violence-fights to decide who will be the Alpha male, the reptilian brain takes the lead (not even talking about the delicate theme of rape).
Blessed are the guys who have low sexual drives,not only is it more comfortable not to have that terrible adreline push at the sight of females, I believe they are more able to control their own lives and avoid awkward situations!
The male sex drive is a curse when married. The wife will not want sex or allow you to masturbate.
WHAT??? Again, this is such spectacularly incorrect. A wife "won't allow" their husband to jerk off? The will "will not want sex?"
These types of jaded, bitter, just plain wrong assumptions are very prevelent on this Forum. Whoever made this remark obviously made the mistake of marrying a woman who hated sex. That's maybe 1% of the population.
WHAT??? Again, this is such spectacularly incorrect. A wife "won't allow" their husband to jerk off? The will "will not want sex?"
These types of jaded, bitter, just plain wrong assumptions are very prevelent on this Forum. Whoever made this remark obviously made the mistake of marrying a woman who hated sex. That's maybe 1% of the population.
Wait - you mean you didn't have the "no sex" vow in your wedding? We sure did! "I promise to love, honor, and never touch you or let you touch yourself ever again, for as long as we both shall live."
WHAT??? Again, this is such spectacularly incorrect. A wife "won't allow" their husband to jerk off? The will "will not want sex?"
These types of jaded, bitter, just plain wrong assumptions are very prevelent on this Forum. Whoever made this remark obviously made the mistake of marrying a woman who hated sex. That's maybe 1% of the population.
it's not because "the wife doesn't want sex", it's more complicated than that , it has to do with the human psyche : when there has been long term intimacy in a couple (a recently published study evaluates at 3 years the average duration of passionate love), most of the time (of course there are exceptions, but not as much as conventionally admitted, see the high divorce rates) the "crude" desire of both towards each other plummets, even if tender intimacy is still there -and maybe more powerful than hitherto-. Then some problems might arouse : the guy (remember that stupid animal sex drive we have) might want to jack off masturbating fantasizing about Paris Hilton (?) and wife might find it tasteless or downright repugnant, it might cause uneasiness/tension in the couple.
Then some problems might arouse : the guy (remember that stupid animal sex drive we have) might want to jack off masturbating fantasizing about Paris Hilton (?) and wife might find it tasteless or downright repugnant, it might cause uneasiness/tension in the couple.
As long as he's not doing it at the dinner table, most women wouldn't care and would expect him to be doing that.
Then find a woman who doesn't turn down sex. You must be running in the wrong circles. I don't know any woman who turns down sex. Most women I know pester their men for sex and the men can't keep up.
Yeah there are few women who will turn down a sportsstar, but at the rate I'm goen it'll seemingly be hard to get laid with an overpayed blind prostitute.
Even when reached far down the lower 10-scale where I know relatively few guys are hitting it's not like they expect anything less than a prince/rockstar, although one even remotely toward that end of guys wouldn't take a second look at them.
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no I find this assumption quite right
