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People seems to make a big stink over self esteem, I get tired of hearing about it. The way some people talk about it is as if it's going to clear everything up for a person, make things clear. I also notice it peppered throughout a lot of answers given in this section... Well, I come to the conclusion it's another B.S. concept like CBT Therapy. Where somebody benefited somewhere in the world and now we all can . Self esteem is pushed onto people and in the end it's just another abstract concept that doesn't amount provide any more answers then anything else...Anyways what are your thoughts on self esteem as a concept?
People seems to make a big stink over self esteem, I get tired of hearing about it. The way some people talk about it is as if it's going to clear everything up for a person, make things clear. I also notice it peppered throughout a lot of answers given in this section... Well, I come to the conclusion it's another B.S. concept like CBT Therapy. Where somebody benefited somewhere in the world and now we all can . Self esteem is pushed onto people and I don't think in the end it really means much of anything... Anyways what are your thoughts on self esteem as a concept?
Self-esteem is important. People that lack self-esteem are easily offended by little things, go overboard when they feel they are mistreated, spend too much time fantasizing about revenge, and feel sorry for themselves.
People with low self-esteem have problems (like Drama Queens). Instead of thinking they explode into rage, screams and tears. People with low self-esteem run along with popular opinions without thinking for themselves; they do not trust their own minds, but prefer to be accepted in a group.
if your esteem is low enough it drops off radar. super low self esteem is good. it makes ego manipulation very difficult if u dont have any u dont get manipulated.
does this post not make sense? go hang out in a welfare lobby for an hour. watch the pro's handle ego their own and others.
of course in extreme cases, it becomes sociopath--- acting the opposite of how u should feel.
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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All good answers so far. It's just plain unappealing to try to have fun with someone with low self esteem. They're too focused on themselves to relax and just have fun.
ETA: Well....a lot of good answers so far anyway. More popped up as I was typing. LOL
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