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The concept of a lady boy. There are some hearts never to be played or toyed with. Behind every man is woman. Some women need a man to solve their issues and problems. Homosexuality is a direct result of macho men trying to teach a beta male about women.
The concept of a lady boy. There are some hearts never to be played or toyed with. Behind every man is woman. Some women need a man to solve their issues and problems. Homosexuality is a direct result of macho men trying to teach a beta male about women.
That you said is completely wrong.
Homosexuality is the sexual, emotional and romantic attraction to the same sex. Just like bisexuality and heterosexuality, homsoexuality is hardwired in the brain. Also, thousands of animal species have homosexual members but they don't have social constructs like those invented by men such as patriarchy so we are talking about a natural variance in human sexuality.
You are conflating sexual orientation with feminine/masculine behaviour. They are not the same thing nor are they related. Most of our behaviour is acquired as we grow up and it can change through time. Sexual orientation doesn't detemine whether you will be more feminine or masculine in any way.
You are also conflating homosexuality with gender identity. Homosexual men are not women in a man's body at all. You are possibly too influenced by the media and their one-dimensional portrayal of homosexual men. The same way there are effeminate homsoexual men there are also effeminate heterosexual men.
There are lots of very masculine homosexual men, but you don't notice them because cultural conditioning makes you assume they are heterosexuals.
This is a matter of visibility. Most homosexual men and women are not noticeable; onle the most noticeable portion of all the spectruum is visible so people assume "that's how they all are". It is like when most people associate black people with rap and hip hop because that's mainly what they have seen and that is showed by the media.
Homosexuality is the sexual, emotional and romantic attraction to the same sex. Just like bisexuality and heterosexuality, homsoexuality is hardwired in the brain. Also, thousands of animal species have homosexual members but they don't have social constructs like those invented by men such as patriarchy so we are talking about a natural variance in human sexuality.
You are conflating sexual orientation with feminine/masculine behaviour. They are not the same thing nor are they related. Most of our behaviour is acquired as we grow up and it can change through time. Sexual orientation doesn't detemine whether you will be more feminine or masculine in any way.
You are also conflating homosexuality with gender identity. Homosexual men are not women in a man's body at all. You are possibly too influenced by the media and their one-dimensional portrayal of homosexual men. The same way there are effeminate homsoexual men there are also effeminate heterosexual men.
There are lots of very masculine homosexual men, but you don't notice them because cultural conditioning makes you assume they are heterosexuals.
This is a matter of visibility. Most homosexual men and women are not noticeable; onle the most noticeable portion of all the spectruum is visible so people assume "that's how they all are". It is like when most people associate black people with rap and hip hop because that's mainly what they have seen and that is showed by the media.
The effeminate male you speak of is a derogatory term for an emasculated heterosexual male most likely rejected by the gay men or community as a whole. Typically they only like the pretty boys. The masculine homosexual males are a fine line between a bull q*ue*er and a d*ike layered with a sexual abused male overcompensating for preexisting sexual trauma while admitting through his own sexual behavior that his gender was rejected by his own mother.
Sometimes the truth is stranger than fiction. Many do not like to be told how they behave because it defines who they are through behavior.
Men who have lived their lives a heterosexuals--at least the ones who truly enjoyed sex with women and historically had not interest or attraction to other men--do not "go Gay." Oh, out of intense loneliness or need some might seek comfort for a short while by having sex with another man. The human mind can get pretty creative and also "fly-in'-the-face" of all your past habits and actions when it is deluged with emotional pain.
This is purely a sort of defense mechanism. Just like people who "forget" or "block-out" past, unsavory experiences. Or the MPD thing. (multi-personality-disorder)--where alleged different characters or personalities are created by the mind in an a desperate attempt to purge what it needs to and still "save face" by deluding Conscious into believing, "Hey, it's OK, Joe! YOU didn't set that house of fire. "Car"l did! LOL.
(I must add here that many mental health professionals do not believe in MPD.)
So...yeah..I think a straight man can have sex with another man and still consider himself straight. Of course I am also of the belief that there is no absolutes in being either "Gay" or "Hetero." But rather, degrees of separation. Sexual preference, after all, is just that: a preference.
It's like: what's your favorite flavor of ice cream? OK, mine is chocolate. Let's say it is ALL I ever eat. But one night I am craving ice cream and I have no chocolate but there is a pint of vanilla in the freezer. I eat that. And it satisfies my ice cream craving for the night, but it's not as good as chocolate. And afterwards I will always still go to chocolate and call myself a chocolate lover.
Ergo......a homosexual experience out of desperate loneliness can do the same thing on an emotional craving level as the vanilla ice cream did on a physiological hunger level.
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