Not sure if this is a way of making sure you never get abused? (counselor, therapy)
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So you don't really want a strong, loving, relationship you want some guy who can pass a test.......
alrighty then
Yes, I do. I'm just making sure I don't get hurt and he doesn't have those snapping urgest. I don't want an abusive loser. I would file charges on him right away. Hence, why I'm always with my cell phone. I never walk without it.
Yes, I do. I'm just making sure I don't get hurt and he doesn't have those snapping urgest. I don't want an abusive loser. I would file charges on him right away. Hence, why I'm always with my cell phone. I never walk without it.
If a man leaves you and doesn't take you back, is he a loser?
If a man leaves you and doesn't take you back, is he a loser?
Nope, that's what my past bf did and guess it was deserved. At least that's way better than if a man reverts to that animalistic instinct and hits or replies back in any aggressive manner.
But I do feel guilty at times. I don't mean to. It must be my own fear from the flashbacks I keep having about my uncle and certain other guys in the family who reacted.
I agree. You sound like you just want an excuse for your bad behavior, OP. You said yourself words can provoke. What an *ssholey thing to say.
Test yourself before you wreck yourself.
No one deserves to get hit because of words being said out. I still have nothing but deep resentment for those like my uncle whenever he used that excuse against my aunt.
Verbal and psychological abuse can be more difficult to heal
How so? I always thought getting hit was worst. In that moment, they invaded your space and touch you in an unwanted manner to make you fear them. Those abusers want nothing but power and control. They suck.
Nope, that's what my past bf did and guess it was deserved. At least that's way better than if a man reverts to that animalistic instinct and hits or replies back in any aggressive manner.
But I do feel guilty at times. I don't mean to. It must be my own fear from the flashbacks I keep having about my uncle and certain other guys in the family who reacted.
I hate people like you. You ruin families and destroy children's emotional health. You remind me of my mother. You make men angry and impatient and some of them snap and get physical. Unfortunately for me my mother did not call the police when the man took out his anger physically.
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