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Old 12-08-2013, 01:21 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I mean, yes I love my best friend very much but not in that way. People are born gay. They cannot turn into one
Unless you get a sex change (well, sort of, if you know what I mean).
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Old 12-08-2013, 01:24 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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This is my LAST topic in city data and I want to make it clear.

Based on my experience ( both in and out of internet ) it seems like women in general don't see any worth in their men after they have kids. Things like child support, alimony and welfare system act as a fuel to further the fire. I saw a documentary where women only need men for 5 years. It's during that time when the infant can't walk and mommy can't leave the house. After baby turns 5, she moves on. Apparently that's our nature.

I am actually a 18 year old and the things i have been exposed to like briffaults law, MGTOW, views of many women on men etc in internet make me hate the institution of marriage, fatherhood and love.
Why should i even bother ?
I always stay away from women, totally avoid them, no unnecessary conversation and no friendship with them. I have decided to stay single throughout and never to date or marry and stay virgin too.
But may times i feel extremely attracted to women. I get feeling that women are so special and the best creation ever. Then i feel irritated n depressed sometimes. I remain happy most of the time but sometimes this feeling gets me. And no I don't hate women or anything.
My actual question is
How to totally overcome and kiill my feelings, attraction towards women forever?
There must be a way.
I wouldn't recommend for you to leave this forum.

Anyway, unless you get a sex change (and even then, it is not guaranteed, and it might very well be more trouble for you than it's worth), you probably can't get rid of your attraction to women, at least not with your current technology. However, you can remain single all of your life, permanently avoid sex, and if necessary, simply masturbate (if it makes you feel better, you can masturbate to pics of cartoon women instead of pics of real women).

Anyway, I hope that this advice will help you at least somewhat.
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Old 12-08-2013, 01:26 AM
 
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Unless you get a sex change (well, sort of, if you know what I mean).
I love being guy way too much bro. I can pee standing up
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Old 12-08-2013, 01:30 AM
 
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I wouldn't recommend for you to leave this forum.

Anyway, unless you get a sex change (and even then, it is not guaranteed, and it might very well be more trouble for you than it's worth), you probably can't get rid of your attraction to women, at least not with your current technology. However, you can remain single all of your life, permanently avoid sex, and if necessary, simply masturbate (if it makes you feel better, you can masturbate to pics of cartoon women instead of pics of real women).

Anyway, I hope that this advice will help you at least somewhat.
I don't masturbate
I feel bad when i watch porn especially for women who are in it. I don't know why but it does not feel right.
Yes i know i am weird but i would consider your advice bro.
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Old 12-08-2013, 01:42 AM
 
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Mod cut: Orphaned (quoted post has been deleted.)

Actually my parents love me a lot and i love them with all my heart too.
You know, i don't want to use a girl for sex, its just not me. I was not raised this way. Sex does not even come in my mind when i see a cute girl. Just maybe some appreciation but i tend to ignore and continue doing what i feel right.
Yes, i have a great family and all.

The point i find interesting is " Testesterone level". Do you think it has something to do with it ?
I am 6'1, have some muscles and jog a lot and you very well know how physical tennis is and how it increase your stamina. But even i hate to think about love instead of sex so many times.

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Old 12-08-2013, 01:52 AM
 
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Actually my parents love me a lot and i love them with all my heart too.
You know, i don't want to use a girl for sex, its just not me. I was not raised this way. Sex does not even come in my mind when i see a cute girl. Just maybe some appreciation but i tend to ignore and continue doing what i feel right.
Yes, i have a great family and all.

The point i find interesting is " Testesterone level". Do you think it has something to do with it ?
I am 6'1, have some muscles and jog a lot and you very well know how physical tennis is and how it increase your stamina. But even i hate to think about love instead of sex so many times.
T levels would be my guess. I am black so I naturally have higher Testosterone levels. However you said you were a virgin. Theres whats going on. Find a way to have sex and you will have some understanding. You can't knock it until you try it. You will know for sure after you have sex how you feel about it all. You need experience upon the subject matter before you can make conclusions. I don't recommend a hooker unless your venture for sex with a partner takes like a year of trying. In fact, don't ever try a hooker. The motions will be robotic and unenjoyable. There has to be some intimacy between partners for good sex. This intimacy turns to love for the beta male, so be careful. But without the intimacy, you might as well be jacking off lol.
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Old 12-08-2013, 01:58 AM
 
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T levels would be my guess. I am black so I naturally have higher Testosterone levels. However you said you were a virgin. Theres whats going on. Find a way to have sex and you will have some understanding. You can't knock it until you try it. You will know for sure after you have sex how you feel about it all. You need experience upon the subject matter before you can make conclusions. I don't recommend a hooker unless your venture for sex with a partner takes like a year of trying. In fact, don't ever try a hooker. The motions will be robotic and unenjoyable. There has to be some intimacy between partners for good sex. This intimacy turns to love for the beta male, so be careful. But without the intimacy, you might as well be jacking off lol.
But i don't want sex. How could i ?
If i start to hook up and start having one night stands then i would lose my self esteem forever. I would lose my self respect. I know you cannot understand me man and i don't want you to but its just the way i am. For the same reason i don't drink, smoke or do any drugs while all my mates do.
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Old 12-08-2013, 02:07 AM
 
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But i don't want sex. How could i ?
If i start to hook up and start having one night stands then i would lose my self esteem forever. I would lose my self respect. I know you cannot understand me man and i don't want you to but its just the way i am. For the same reason i don't drink, smoke or do any drugs while all my mates do.
I have a cousin like you, and indeed I don't understand either of you lol. Whatever floats your boat. I haven't been able to change him after trying many times face to face. Theres no way I can change a stranger over the internet. Do whatever you like. Just please don't be disillusioned by women. Mod cut: gender bashing.

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Old 12-08-2013, 02:13 AM
 
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I have a cousin like you, and indeed I don't understand either of you lol. Whatever floats your boat. I haven't been able to change him after trying many times face to face. Theres no way I can change a stranger over the internet. Do whatever you like. Just please don't be disillusioned by women. Orphaned.
You know even when i didn't knew about briffualts law and many more i was attracted to women who were natural. No make up, no heels , nothing. But i get your point.
Say hi to your cousin from me. I am glad to know someone is like me. You cannot understand ua, just like we don't understand you.
Ans i love the word human being better instead of beta or alpha male

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Old 12-08-2013, 02:38 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Become a monk and join a monastery.
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