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Most of the women I see in porn have natural perfect bodies. The girls-gone wild brand, the lesbian porn types, and mainstream pornstars like Sasha Grey, tory black and so forth are all natural and quite beautiful. I don't watch amateur porn. The woman might be a minor or the video might've been uploaded without her knowing about it.
Natural perfect bodies? In whose opinion? The whole idea of a "standard" for sexiness is a stupid idea. What if I like something else (for example, I don't particularly like big breasts)? Is that a bad thing? What if I am attracted to intelligence and a sweet personality? And in fact a lot of men don't go for the standard idea of sexiness.
I'm not trying to be any kind of morally "good" guy. There are things that will turn me off, mostly personality traits, but also obesity and a woman who smells bad. My point is there is no body that is perfect, and people who buy this "standard" are missing out and maybe not all there.
Because the porn they watch is usually fantasy porn with extremely good looking women and great bodies. In porn the man dominates the woman and forces them into many positions and situations that the average woman is not willing to do.
Once again women are "forced" to do something, therefore making them the victims. I didn't know women were children who didn't have the mental capacity to make their own decisions.
I'll take a different approach to the question. Lots of men will look at porn and masterbate and it has absolutely nothing to do with how they feel about their mate. They can be in a relationship with the best looking, hottest, most sexually aggressive woman in the world, and occasionally it is simply more convenient to have sex with yourself. As for the porn, men are stimulated visually, so porn is a natural means to get that stimulation.
One reason is that it is quick, no foreplay needed, and no cuddling afterwards. You take care of your urges, have your climax, and go right back to what you were doing. It doesn't mean you don't love the woman you are with or are not turned on by her, it just means you wanted a quickie without any drawn out lovemaking. You only have to please yourself.
I suspect a lot of women do the same thing, and there is nothing wrong with that. I have been in relationships with women who would tell me that they used their "little friend" to get some relief, and it didn't bother me one way or the other. In fact , it was kind of a turn on, knowing she thought about sex and was open to masterbation as a means to an end.
Truth be known, I bet more people occasionally do this sort of thing than anyone will admit.
Don
What I never understand is...what is so wrong about it and why wouldn't anyone admit to it? This is one thing I am sad about with humans. So many have to lie and be fake just because they think others won't accept it and judge them. Just be real and true to yourself.
I fully admit I do this. As you said sometimes you just want the physical release and nothing more.
Voyeurism is at the heart of it all and it's sick perversion of something beautiful between man and woman. Porn is for creeps and folks I'd consider damaged goods.
Those are some strong assumptions you have there chief. You sound more extreme and judgmental then a 70-year old preacher.
This seems to be another case of people blaming modern day media for the poor behavior of a few individuals. Video games, T.V., internet, porn, hip hop music you name it. "Never mind that many people can use these forms of media and still lead productive professional and social lives or the fact that some women either don't care or will even watch it with there SO's. No. that would actually challenge my point, I need to focus on the sleazebags and the scum buckets in there stained undershirts who watch porn in their dirty apartments. That's far more interesting to talk about then the regular ordinary person that watches porn moderately and yet is still smart enough to discern fiction from reality."
And as for this topic. No, most men would not choose porn over a real woman. If this were really an issue then why do we get questions on here from guys contemplating seeing a hooker or an escort when it would be cheaper to download some porn. Apparently porn doesn't do anything for them when in comparison to a real life women. Many guys that probably do watch porn simply are not attracted to their SO's anymore, want to get off easily and conveniently or can't attract a girl to begin with.
Thankfully this has never been an issue for me, but I have heard time and time again from women that, even though they would be very happy to have sex with their bf/husband they'd still rather watch porn. I never understood this, wouldn't actually having sex with a woman be more pleasurable than watching fake women on some porn site?
bored, lost interest, not exciting, turned off, the sex is not good, lazy, too much hassle
What I never understand is...what is so wrong about it and why wouldn't anyone admit to it? This is one thing I am sad about with humans. So many have to lie and be fake just because they think others won't accept it and judge them. Just be real and true to yourself.
I fully admit I do this. As you said sometimes you just want the physical release and nothing more.
True. I'm sure the people who have the biggest addiction/problem with porn are the religous conservatives who deny their sexuality. think Warren Jeffs at an extreme.
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Once again women are "forced" to do something, therefore making them the victims. I didn't know women were children who didn't have the mental capacity to make their own decisions.
