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Voyeurism is at the heart of it all and it's sick perversion of something beautiful between man and woman. Porn is for creeps and folks I'd consider damaged goods.
Last edited by Philosophizer; 02-27-2014 at 08:36 PM..
bunch of reasons I can think of...
- not sexually aroused by their partner
- partner and they are on different sexual wavelengths, he may be sexually adventurous and she may have hangups about it
- partner may be making him uncomfortable sexually or is disinterested in sex
bunch of reasons I can think of...
- not sexually aroused by their partner
- partner and they are on different sexual wavelengths, he may be sexually adventurous and she may have hangups about it
- partner may be making him uncomfortable sexually or is disinterested in sex
You forgot one of the most common ones :
-The couple have had a disagreement/fight/ or gotten offside with each other for whatever reason.
Your daughter's boyfriend ought to put up a hidden camera facing the computer for when she is gone. I'll take money at 110-1 odds, the guy watches porn. All men like to look at women, those who say otherwise, either have no testosterone left in their body, or they are really good liars.
It still cracks me how everyone on this forum always takes the almighty high road....."not me"
There is so much porn out there today, BECAUSE THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE WATCHING IT!
Personally all a little porn ever did for me, was make me want to attack my girlfriend. Most didn't care as long as I kept coming for them.
What ruins a good man for a good woman along the sex issue..... is not looking at stuff. It's doing it in real life. That's when the line is crossed.
I had an ole friend who was married to a pretty woman and he loved her. He went away to Germany once for his business and visited the FKK men's clubs while over there. He came home a changed man. He bragged to me about how he could have sex with cover model grade women and how they did anything and everything and many were VERY sexual. It ruined his sex life with his wife and they later divorced. He became so addicted to these women, he travels there 4-6 times a year. I looked it up once and as a man, I'll admit, the women in those clubs are incredibly beautiful and the fact that they'll do anything for you is appealing. But even I have a moral compass and will never pay for sex. But look at porn and get revved up for my girl? I'll do that and it works!
I very much doubt it, not ALL men do believe it or not. My daughter doesn't tell me every minute detail about their relationship (not that I ask or would want to know), but suffice to say they are a VERY happy couple and he is very romantic towards her and is always holding hands, kissing/hugging etc. when they are together, even if they are at my place. They are both conservative Christians and even when other attractive women are around he doesn't look. Now, they do have sex and spend lots of time together but she has certainly never seen him watch porn or anything, heck, he is completely turned off by the hooker look and all that.
Well I don't know what to say. He has always turned down a chance to go to strip clubs and he has even turned away guy friends that try to show him it.
Because he's bored.
Or she gained weight.
Or he's no longer attracted to her.
Or she won't do acts or positions he likes.
Or he craves variety.
Or he watches it with his girl.
Or just wants a quick fap session.
Etc etc.
Because he's bored.
Or she gained weight.
Or he's no longer attracted to her.
Or she won't do acts or positions he likes.
Or he craves variety.
Or he watches it with his girl.
Or just wants a quick fap session.
Etc etc.
And burned out from overwork. I work remotely (online) for a former longtime employer; much of our output consists of intermittent rush projects where the client needs product next week if not yesterday. The rush projects, if large enough (and some are), can burn me out. That's when I can get stupid.
Its an interesting dynamic! I've seen other reports of this online where young women are lamenting that men their age are simply more interested in surfing porn then approaching them.
It's interesting because women have long been seen as the "gatekeepers of sex" in our society along with all of the influence and power that goes with that. An average woman could walk into any bar or club and have multiple men clamoring for her attention Men have to approach and court women in order to get attention and eventually sex. It will be interesting to see how this plays out with women losing the power they have had as the sexual gatekeepers of society. We all know that sex sells but we also know that a sexy woman is treated almost like a celebrity in our culture, getting constant attention, complements, opportunities and advantages simply because of how she looks.
Now, the game is changing. Many men are no longer playing. They have discovered endless variety of women and sexual situations all dialed up instantly with no games to play or hoops to jump through. I agree though that it is no match for
the real thing but I can also see why it's so hard a habit to kick.
I wonder if this is what drives so many women to get involved with "sexting" and things like that. Maybe they feel they need to compete with porn.
I've also read that internet porn or porn addiction is causing erectile dysfunction in a remarkable number of young men who are no longer easily stimulated by real sex. So it becomes a catch-22, they get hooked on porn for the variety and instant gratification and then they can't perform with real women anymore so it's back to the porn.
What happens when technology advances to the point where have Matrix-like virtual reality where you can dial up what seems like a totally real experience with an endless variety of women?
Scary.
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