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The guy is mentally off. People often have a sick sense about mentally off people regardless of how good or bad they look.
His lack of social skills and self entitlement to the physical affection of someone else is outrageous and a huge sign that he has mental health issues.
My question maybe men/people who act or think this way need to be locked up before they harm other people.
I agree many men on this forum sound like this guy.
That means we also have to lock up female rapists before they hurt young boys.
Okay, some people may still call me old-fashioned by today's standards in society, but I think when people (usually conservatives) complain about the over-exposure to sexuality in today's society, and in the media, there complaints have some grain of truth to it. Sadly, I think our collective over-sexed desires as a society have ruined sex for everybody else, and gave human sexuality a bad name.
As a man, I get a little offended when they say that guys who are virgins before a certain age are wrong. I have sexual desire because it's natural for me, not really because I feel "pressured" to.
Okay, some people may still call me old-fashioned by today's standards in society, but I think when people (usually conservatives) complain about the over-exposure to sexuality in today's society, and in the media, there complaints have some grain of truth to it. Sadly, I think our collective over-sexed desires as a society have ruined sex for everybody else, and gave human sexuality a bad name.
As a man, I get a little offended when they say that guys who are virgins before a certain age are wrong. I have sexual desire because it's natural for me, not really because I feel "pressured" to.
I am liberal but on that point I concede to conservatives. Maybe not to the point of banning porn or anything drastic but kids aren't ready to be sexual. If you're able to pay your bills and can act like an adult, then bump uglies all you want. But condoms can break.
Hell I wasn't taught about sex...ever. Anything I know I learned as I went along. Lost my virginity at 23. Late start some can say. But at the same time my inexperience also meant I had no idea how to pursue it so it's not like I could have gotten laid anyway. I know mine is am anecdote but from what I see in conservative Christian circles, having kids who don't know about sex doesn't seem to hurt anything. A lot of these guys have full time jobs and houses before they even stick their member in a woman. Then the woman they marry also has no experience so they're awkward together. Honestly I don't personally see anything wrong with this.
Compare these people to the trash I grew up around who all were getting laid in their teens and are all very much losers now struggling to pay rent and taking care of theirs AND other people's kids because all the women got pregnant early. That's the extreme of sexual liberation tactics and it sure isn't working well for anyone. Sex is one of those fun things that can have life altering consequences and we think children (who we admit aren't old enough to consent) are supposed to be mentally able to handle the responsibility that comes with it? Foh
I would rather raise my kids to spend money wisely, work hard to make money, teach them business skills and how to pay bills and manage money than teach them how to get laid and then I have welfare queens (per the conservatives) as my offspring.
it's often said to guys, men who are upset at women, they say women don't owe you anything, they don't owe you jack****, because it doesn't look that way the other way around because women are the ones getting offers, while men are the ones making offers.
AND here we go again. Toronto terrorist who murdered 10 hated women and was a self-proclaimed incel.
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A Facebook post by a man with the same name and the same photo as the one that appears on Minassian's LinkedIn profile refers to the "Supreme Gentleman Elliot Rodger," a 22-year-old responsible for a deadly rampage in Isla Vista, California, that left six people dead and a dozen more injured.
I cannot object strongly enough to the use of the name "Chad" to describe a guy that women want to date (or whatever.)
It almost makes me wanna throw a drink at somebody more even than the woman-hate generally espoused by the group. I mean OK, you are hurting and life sucks and I'm sorry. But Chad? CHAD??? All I can think of is some sort of a country club Ken doll with an ascot. Gross! You think women want that? Do you know any actual women? Well...obviously not...but come on, guys.
I've had 3 Dans, and Daves are always heartbreakers, but a Chad? NEVER.
It almost makes me wanna throw a drink at somebody more even than the woman-hate generally espoused by the group. I mean OK, you are hurting and life sucks and I'm sorry. But Chad? CHAD??? All I can think of is some sort of a country club Ken doll with an ascot. Gross! You think women want that? Do you know any actual women? Well...obviously not...but come on, guys.
I've had 3 Dans, and Daves are always heartbreakers, but a Chad? NEVER.
Well, these are dudes who are pretty invested in being bad with women, so...
These are men who feel emasculated due to their lack of sexual activity. It makes them feel low in the masculine hierarchy. Rather than blame the toxic aspects of masculinity, they blame women for denying them the tools to climb the ladder.
Read the article. And yes, I know, but the choice of the name "Chad" still bugs me. I think I'm numb to most of the horror, now I'm just reacting to the more trivial irritations...
Also, I truly enjoyed, from the article, the phrase,
Rereading bits of this thread it's abolutely shocking the number of guys who say, in effect, it's better to be bad with women than a player who impregnates everyone in sight.
How does someone get through their activities of daily living without understanding that there is actually a ****-ton of experiences between two vast extremes?
Extreme binary thinking is as scary as anything in this thread.
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As a very frustrated “kissless virgin,” something else is clearly busted up in the head aside from not being successful with women that causes dudes to hurt or kill others over it. Do I get really frustrated and angry over my lack of success with women? Hell yeah! I make no apologies over how I feel but I know the problem is entirely my own. As someone who grew up in the hood, I don’t believe in violence unless and only if it was to protect me, my mother, or my partners. I would never physically take my rage out on innocent people who didn’t have a damn thing to do with my issues.
Women, I’m very sorry sick individuals commit horrible crimes like this and try to leave y’all as a gender holding the bag. It is messed up.
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