Are introverts less interested in having kids?

[GraniteStater]

I am introverted, (ITSJ), and have never had any inclination to have a kid. I have had relationships but generally prefer to be single as I highly value intellectual research pursuits, reading books, learning more about meteorology and other related interests, and keeping active in my professional societies as an active member. I also prefer outdoor recreation and passive recreation to socializing any day of the week. My ideal long-term goal is to have a small cabin in the Northwoods with trails access to a lake.

[Illusionist]

Originally Posted by Wordsmith12

I am an introvert and the odds of my having kids aren't that good because:

- I love my independence and alone time (to read, write, work out, etc.)
- I can't stand social functions (e.g. kids' birthday parties, etc.)
- Too much social interaction drains me
- I like routine (kids are unpredictable)
- I want to live in a calm, relaxing environment
- I find kids to be boring. I'll watch a kid frolic for a few minutes. Then I'm bored.
- I have anxiety problems (can't imagine it getting better with an unruly kid)
- My wife has health issues of her own (high blood pressure, thyroid, etc.) She's also a teacher and comes home drained every day. Needless to say, I would probably have to pick up some of her slack.
-I want to do so much more in my life (travel, write, read)
-I want to do everything in my power to keep my life as simple and minimalist as possible

I have my moments, though, where I envision myself having a little girl. I usually get those when I see my male friends with their young daughters. So, I guess I am not 100% opposed to having kids but my gut tells me it may not be a good idea.

Is anyone else here an introvert who feels the same way? Are introverts less disposed to want kids?

Minus having a spouse, and occasionally finding kids boring (some are, and some aren't), this describes me to a tee, which is why I don't want kids. I am 25, though, so I don't know if I'll change my mind or not. But I don't see myself changing my mind even then, and when I do, it's rare.

[Shimmy00]

I'm an introvert and would like one. Although I would need the circumstances to be different than my current situation. I guess being an introvert has made me a bit picky and I can't imagine marrying most people. But I can't change that. It's just my nature. I sometimes wish I was more open to people and more outgoing just because life would be easier. I would like to be married or at least on that path before a child. Since I need a specific type of person to settle down with, I'm not sure when if that will happen.

[49ersfan27]

Kids are messy, destructive, and unbearable to deal with. I love my sister (An 11 month old) and my niece but they're tiresome to watch. Introvert here and I don't want kids.

[West of Encino]

I feel the same way.

[bande1102]

I'm an introvert and have 3 grown kids. Always wanted them and am so glad I have them. I love deep, meaningful one on one conversations. I love getting lost in long-term projects. Kids gave me all of that and more.

As far as the social aspect---I didn't do alot of parties at my house and my house did not have an open-door policy. Kid get-togethers were planned in advance. My husband is extroverted so he loved doing the coaching, organizing pick-up sports games, etc.