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Originally Posted by MaggieZ
that's a shame... she may have mental problems because of being abused. You tend to go to a "place in your head" while it's happening, pretend it's happning to someone else or just a part of you. The brain is so complicated and it protects in a way. I doubt she's making it up. But that's my opinion because maybe I tend to stand on the side of the person that had to go through it. I guess she really needs to know who's side a person is on even more because of being doubted so much. Maybe she often doubts herself?
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She also may have had nothing at all happen to her. For people that have worked with people with schizophrenia and bipolar disorders, which are becoming more and more common, they know how fragile and fickle the minds can be in people with these conditions.
It is a reality that men are falsely accused of sexual abuse also, but you won't read about that on this forum.
A women really holds all the cards in our society if they want to ruin a man. They are guilty until presumed innocent in this matter.
Men lose their careers due to false accusations, and if they are working in healthcare, a lot of time it is from people that are not mentally stable.
What real defense does a man have in a defense against such a claim?
My heart goes out to those that have suffered from this, but there is the other end of the spectrum as well that is not presented on this forum at all.
It makes men out to be in the majority sex abusers, which is not the case. Guilty until proven innocent in today's culture. One word against the other. DNA evidence can be extracted from a bathroom towel.
Men in today's society have to be careful. I dated a girl for a very brief period that had a dx of schizophrenia and the unstability forced me to end the relationship early.
There are good male nurses working with mentally disabled patients that are losing the license they spent tens of thousands of dollars and years of their professional life to obtain due to a false accusation.
Not to say the true accusations don't happen, but so do the false.
It's one reason I decided not to get into nursing. Due to the staffing constraints, you're forced into situations where you'd have procedures that required the touching of genitalia such as insertion of foley catheters. A man really needs TWO people in the room while performing these procedures.
Because all it takes is one patient that had a bad day that doesn't like you to make an accusation and you could very well not only lose your job but your license.
There are TWO SIDES to the coin.