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I was curious... do you consider this a turn off? This guy came and practically c~block my conversation with my male crush. I was really nice to this guy but inside I was angry he interject himself into me and my crush outing. So I sent my crush a couple txt messages like... "i thought he was gone." "Must be nice" A little b..i.chy like a Mean Girl thing to do. I even told him he look younger in front of my crush.
Obviously my crush didnt want him there...
My crush didnt add fuel to my fire and let the txt die.
So now im worried he got turn off by my txt or simply didnt want to add to it... By the way my crush talks bs about his coworkers so he can be a bit biichy too.
I think you blew the whole thing out of proportion. How do you know the guy's intention was to "cockblock"? I'd be turned off too.
It wasnt his intention. But we were having a witchy conversation about the people we hate and we were talking about the legalization of things.. dumb conversation topics... but it was my crush. And he totally kill the vibe.
Well it wasnt like i saud anything mean about the guy.... i just thought he was gone... but i said it like "oh hes on a month long vacation must be nice"...like hes having the time of his life. My crush was talking crap about people he shouldnt so i think we are equal.
It wasnt his intention. But we were having a witchy conversation about the people we hate and we were talking about the legalization of things.. dumb conversation topics... but it was my crush. And he totally kill the vibe.
Well it wasnt like i saud anything mean about the guy.... i just thought he was gone... but i said it like "oh hes on a month long vacation must be nice"...like hes having the time of his life. My crush was talking crap about people he shouldnt so i think we are equal.
If you speak "English" here instead of "text", more people will understand what you are saying and can give you advice. Note that the other posts here are in "English".
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IMO the turn-off is that you try too hard, and it shows. Your crush, if he were interested in you, would ask you out. It's not anyone else's fault that you are trying to corner this guy alone because you like him, how would the guy have possibly known that? I don't think gossiping and being negative is the way I would flirt with a guy, in any case.
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If that's what your crush is like, and that's what you want, and you think a text is going to make them uncrush on you, well, that's that way it is. Worrying about it won't do a thing but add to your stress level.
I guess I'm old. Someone not adding to my text is like, not even on my list of things to worry about.
I was curious... do you consider this a turn off? This guy came and practically c~block my conversation with my male crush. I was really nice to this guy but inside I was angry he interject himself into me and my crush outing. So I sent my crush a couple txt messages like... "i thought he was gone." "Must be nice" A little b..i.chy like a Mean Girl thing to do. I even told him he look younger in front of my crush.
Obviously my crush didnt want him there...
My crush didnt add fuel to my fire and let the txt die.
So now im worried he got turn off by my txt or simply didnt want to add to it... By the way my crush talks bs about his coworkers so he can be a bit biichy too.
2 questions
Is your "crush" into dudes, or are you trying to go 'where no man has gone before'?
If your "crush" IS into dudes, why the heck are you beating around the bush about him being your "crush"? Just go for it! There are no extra points for being catty about it.
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