Ladies, is it true you are not easily arused by a naked man? (men, attracted)
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They're hairy, smelly, and have gross physical habits.
I can't imagine how women equate this with "sexy."
As I woman, I would be attracted only to other women.
Not all men look like you, and it's a good thing they don't! I'm pretty hairless except on my head, and I wash. I've been called sexy by women, though there's only one person that I care about finding me sexy, and he's pretty sexy too!
Yes, lots of women are actually turned on by naked men, but it depends on how the guy looks. Plenty of women look at porn where men are the centre of focus. Lots of women are into gay porn, too. Ever heard of "yaoi" for example? It's a big world out there!
Frankly, this entire conversation appears to explain why women might be more fluid in regards to sexuality than men are, why women objectify men less than men objectify women, and why exactly a lesbian online friend of mine on another forum said that she needs to have an emotional connection (or something along those lines) in order to be sexually aroused to another woman (or to anyone, for that matter). In addition to this, the information in this thread relates to a testimony by this one eunuch which I previously read where he stated that, after his castration (and while he was off of hormones), he stopped thinking a lot about sex and was thus able to focus more on the beauty in women's faces; frankly, I myself would enjoy that type of experience sometimes, though obviously not all of this time.
As a side note, though, it will certainly be interesting to see how exactly my own perspective in regards to this will change after I will get castrated and begin taking female hormones.
Also, if one is curious, sexual arousal for me is currently primarily based on appearance/visuals; however, there is sometimes some emotional and/or romantic component to sexual arousal for me as well.
Let me be just a little more graphic. I apparently don't live in the best neighborhood. One of my neighbors had this ugly habit of coming out and flashing male parts at me. I wasn't turned on; I was disgusted. (That disgust did evolve into mild curiosity, however.) I told him that what he was doing was sexual harassment (or worse) and promptly went back inside and closed and locked the door!
Frankly, this entire conversation appears to explain why women might be more fluid in regards to sexuality than men are, why women objectify men less than men objectify women, and why exactly a lesbian online friend of mine on another forum said that she needs to have an emotional connection (or something along those lines) in order to be sexually aroused to another woman (or to anyone, for that matter). In addition to this, the information in this thread relates to a testimony by this one eunuch which I previously read where he stated that, after his castration (and while he was off of hormones), he stopped thinking a lot about sex and was thus able to focus more on the beauty in women's faces; frankly, I myself would enjoy that type of experience sometimes, though obviously not all of this time.
As a side note, though, it will certainly be interesting to see how exactly my own perspective in regards to this will change after I will get castrated and begin taking female hormones.
Castrated? To not be aroused by anyone for months or years would suck royally.
As in sexually aroused or attracted to the nude male body? TWO different things.
I can be visually attracted to a nude male body that is nice to look at, same as I can look at a nicely dressed woman and find her attractive.
As for being sexually aroused by just LOOKING at a nude male body? Not on your life.There's FAR more to a woman getting sexually aroused than just seeing a nude male.
If you are honest about it, what's the visual arousal factor in a penis and their dangly accessories? They aren't exactly a beautiful thing lol
NOTE: I had to say dangly accessories because the censorship thingy wouldn't let me say scro-tum. Funny, the word penis is fine? ya ok lol
I used to believe that you had to feel an emotional connection to someone to be aroused by them. That was a long time ago when I still felt like sexuality was something to be ashamed of. Now I can admit to myself that there are some people who are just especially nice-looking or sexy (and someone doesn't have to be good-looking to be sexy, those can be two totally different things) and I like to look at them, nude or otherwise.
Castrated? To not be aroused by anyone for months or years would suck royally.
Yes, castrated; also, though, it is worth noting that eunuchs can get aroused with and sometimes without hormone replacement therapy. However, the frequency at which a eunuch will get aroused without hormone replacement therapy will obviously be much less than it is for non-castrated men.
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Interesting experiment, though.
Thank you.
Also, while I certainly don't encourage anyone else to ever do this, this appears to be something which I am extremely interested in doing myself.
I find nothing about the male junk sexy period. At best I might look at the bulge but once the "wrapping" is off the package, you better be like a ninja. Just put it in and take it out. I don't want to touch it look at it or anything. You can do something with mine but only if you want and not if I have to do something with yours. Just thinking about an exposed d makes me ill.
As far as the rest of the body I can appreciate it if I feel an emotional connection to the guy but even then it depends on the presentation and I don't go too crazy over it. Like Nick Jonas it's a given that I've had a major thing for him for a long time but when he had the shirtless pics showing his buttcrack and all I was not impressed. I loved his butt in them baseball pants but all those pics did was make me laugh. I certainly don't mind. In fact I think we as a society care too much about this sort of thing. Whether you're a woman or a man you could walk around fully naked on the street for all I care even though I hate the sight of a man's thing (I'll just look away). We were born naked. But it just doesn't do anything for me sexually if it's trying too hard/wrong form of presentation.
For me to go crazy over your butt, it has to be special. Most guys butts are flat from what I've seen..no depth so Nick is the exception I guess.
What attracts me physically would be the face (particularly the eyes...the eyes really tell a man's story) hair and hands but again the guy's hair and hands would have to be attached to a guy I'm already interested in.
Yes I'm complicated even for a woman.
Last edited by Nickchick; 05-06-2015 at 03:34 PM..
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