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Old 11-25-2015, 08:17 AM
 
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Get drunk or stoned then try it....
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Old 11-25-2015, 08:39 AM
 
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If you the therapist route I would get a sex surrogate.The best of both worlds.
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Old 11-25-2015, 10:33 AM
 
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Read "your brain on porn", it's easy to find. You're fooling yourself if you think the porn overuse is not related, IMO it is.
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Old 11-25-2015, 10:57 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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It's just nerves mate that's all.
I forgot........ Foreplay will ease any tension and can be just as enjoyable as sex

If done correctly of course.......
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Old 11-25-2015, 11:42 AM
 
Location: Ocean Shores, WA
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You could waste thousands of dollars on various kinds of therapy scams, or you could:

1. Get a good blow-up sex doll.
2. Fire up the porn.
3. Touch her like they do in the porn videos.
4. Talk to her.

When she talks back you are cured and can go on to a real woman.
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Old 11-25-2015, 02:03 PM
 
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It is truly sad how the sexual revolution of the 1960's has ruined the lives of generations of people.

Pornography and multiple sex partners are now considered normal. Sexually transmitted diseases run rampant.

Someday, the pendulum will swing back and young adults will adopt a more moral lifestyle.
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Old 11-25-2015, 04:05 PM
 
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And if I can't find anyone despite how hard o try I don't deserve sex or any sexual release? Go the **** away grandpa.
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Old 11-25-2015, 04:07 PM
 
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A few questions -

When you are watching porn, what do you concentrate on watching? The girl's face, body, movement?

Or is it the guy, his moves, his junk?

Or maybe it's the visual interaction between the two? (Or more).

If it's the guy you concentrate on, have you considered that maybe girls aren't your thing?

On the other hand, if it is the visual interaction, you don't receive those visual cues from your 'in person' encounters, that part of the equation is missing when you are alone with a woman. Maybe you could try doing it in a room with a mirrored wall to simulate that visual interaction.

Your prostitutes (lol 'escorts') aren't providing you with anything compelling in the way of interactions. Perhaps they aren't as talented as the porn actresses at seeming 'real', and that deflates your passion.
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Old 11-25-2015, 04:08 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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And if I can't find anyone despite how hard o try I don't deserve sex or any sexual release? Go the **** away grandpa.
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Old 11-25-2015, 06:52 PM
 
Location: Kansas
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Here is a good resource and you don't have to be face to face with anyone to read through the information and consider whether you want to participate or need to participate: Recovery Nation - Home
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