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Old 07-21-2016, 06:34 PM
 
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Only the misinformed, bitter, socially awkward, misogynistic guys say this.
women most definitely do have the edge when it comes to dating and relationships n sex.

let's not try to sugarcoat it and give the 'politically' correct answer.

has zero to do with being bitter or misogynistic.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:38 PM
 
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women most definitely do have the edge when it comes to dating and relationships n sex.

let's not try to sugarcoat it and give the 'politically' correct answer.

has zero to do with being bitter or misogynistic.
Really now? Please list the reasons why you believe that women have the edge in dating, relationships, and sex.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:40 PM
 
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Csd610. When did I say women couldn't? Get with the program, this is not a pissing contest. It's not about screwed up immature men either people. It's about the concerns of women,the worries. The more info the better.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:42 PM
 
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I have a woman in my life who worries that her son will never have a father. It's not a privilege to be in her shoes.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:43 PM
 
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Csd610. When did I say women couldn't? Get with the program, this is not a pissing contest. It's not about screwed up immature men either people. It's about the concerns of women,the worries. The more info the better.
If you have two adult daughters who have shared everything with you over the years, why would you feel the need to hear the concerns and worries of women. Seems as if you would have heard it all already.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:46 PM
 
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I have a woman in my life who worries that her son will never have a father.
So this is your concern also? This is your unmarried daughter who is the single mother? Where is the father?
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:54 PM
 
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I know everything anyway.
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Old 07-21-2016, 06:58 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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women most definitely do have the edge when it comes to dating and relationships n sex.

let's not try to sugarcoat it and give the 'politically' correct answer.

has zero to do with being bitter or misogynistic.
Actually, men will always have the edge because even the most out of shape fat slob of a guy or 98 lb weakling will be able to overpower most any female with their superior upper body strength, physical grappling and pugilistic skills, as well as cunning motives.

When a female blind date slips something into your drink, drags you into a rapey van, drives you to a remote area, takes her liberties with you (and so do all her buddies if she's into that stuff) against your will, slashes your throat and sets your corpse on fire, maybe I will consider your supposition that women have the edge.

Men's biggest worry is that their date will not look like their photo. Because heaven forbid, she may be a lot older, heavier, uglier, etc. in real life than her profile pic. Women get to worry about whether they are unintentionally accepting a date from the next Ted Bundy. Not even close.
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Old 07-21-2016, 07:20 PM
 
Location: colorado springs, CO
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There's been some threads about how hard guys have it on the dating scene and life in general. Women have all the power and special privilege and all that. I'm a father and I have 2 daughters both in their late 20s. Both mothers, one happily married and the other a single mother. I'm the well worn shoulder to cry on for them on a regular basis and if there's one thing I've learned ladies have a huge weight on their shoulders, just as much if not more than men.

They worry about everything form their hair to the future of my grandchildren. They strive like men do just in a different way, with a different set of priorities. A child is an incredible burden, attached to the mother literally for years. Even if a child has a father there's a bond between mothers and children men cannot duplicate. Women do the things they do for reasons be they good or bad for everyone involved. Some people are stupid regardless of sex, all people make mistakes and sometimes things don't work out as was planned.

So anyway ladies tell us guys what you fear in life, what worries you daily?

At the age of 52 I can tell everyone with certainty that it's never too late to stop learning and I sure as hell don't know everything and there's a lot of young guys out there need to know stuff like this.
I worry that I'm not going to be relevant, or valued; when I'm old.

I worry that I will be "invisible".
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Old 07-21-2016, 07:24 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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When a female blind date slips something into your drink, drags you into a rapey van, drives you to a remote area, takes her liberties with you (and so do all her buddies if she's into that stuff) against your will, slashes your throat and sets your corpse on fire, maybe I will consider your supposition that women have the edge.
I don't think that's what people have in mind when they think about gender adv/disadv within dating and relationship.
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