Guys care most about physical beauty, so ladies, why even pursue romantic relationships with them?

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

That's a pretty good attitude. It doesn't really apply to the OP's theory, which was all about a woman's appearance, but it's a good attitude in general.

The OP's theory is flawed.

[BirdieBelle]

Originally Posted by Lovehound

The OP's theory is flawed.

Yep, which is why admitting to being able to see her point makes NO sense.

Fortunately, the OP is no longer a member, yet somehow this thread prevails.

[klmrocks]

Originally Posted by evilamai

Then how do ugly people have relationships? Only a small percentage of the population are good looking. America has one of the FATTEST people on earth. Not everyone looks like us Californians.

Why peruse relationships with American women? They can't cook, are narcissistic, feel entitled and are very selfish (Happy wife happy life nonsense) are are very lazy.

What people consider attractive is higly varried. I am going to share this just because I thought it was really funny. The other day I was boredom surfing the net to take a mental break from what I was doing. Just out of curiousity sometimes I search random words and look at the images that show up in the search list. Ex pretty, happy, dancing monkey. I do this to see if it gives me insite in to what other people assosiate with that word.

Some last week I was searching using a basic description of myself to find a picture of someone like looked like me. So I typed the closest description to what I think I look like. I type chubby latina with long curly hair. To me this is not s flattering description as I hate being a thicker build. When I work out more I get more musclar ....... I will never be petite and delicate like a flower. I am always going to have a fuller butt and larger chest and look like someone who needs to be protected because they are so fragile and prescious.

So what pops up exculsively to this 3 trait description only pornographic stuff lol . My jaw dropped as I was totally surprised. Here I am thinking not being petite and frail looking is horribly and unattractive ... but then there appear to be a lot of people turned on by this ..... so maybe it is not that bad after all.

My point is .... I think when we have the attitude that we think we are not good enough we are actually setting ourselves up for failure. I have done this many times and am only realizing this now. I have messed up many potential relationship with this attitude until I met someone that just would not go alway.

You can over think something all you want before you act ..... and can be wrong. So why stress so much over someone else's perception of you?

All this conversation is showing me is that there are no universal answers so stop thinking so much and just enjoy as much of what you can in life on your own terms.

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Yep, which is why admitting to being able to see her point makes NO sense.

Fortunately, the OP is no longer a member, yet somehow this thread prevails.

Yes, I see.

I think it's time to put a bullet in the head of this topic and let it die in peace.

And then some 1 post wonder will dig it up in 3-4 years and start it over.

[evilamai]

Originally Posted by klmrocks

What people consider attractive is higly varried. I am going to share this just because I thought it was really funny. The other day I was boredom surfing the net to take a mental break from what I was doing. Just out of curiousity sometimes I search random words and look at the images that show up in the search list. Ex pretty, happy, dancing monkey. I do this to see if it gives me insite in to what other people assosiate with that word.

Some last week I was searching using a basic description of myself to find a picture of someone like looked like me. So I typed the closest description to what I think I look like. I type chubby latina with long curly hair. To me this is not s flattering description as I hate being a thicker build. When I work out more I get more musclar ....... I will never be petite and delicate like a flower. I am always going to have a fuller butt and larger chest and look like someone who needs to be protected because they are so fragile and prescious.

So what pops up exculsively to this 3 trait description only pornographic stuff lol . My jaw dropped as I was totally surprised. Here I am thinking not being petite and frail looking is horribly and unattractive ... but then there appear to be a lot of people turned on by this ..... so maybe it is not that bad after all.

My point is .... I think when we have the attitude that we think we are not good enough we are actually setting ourselves up for failure. I have done this many times and am only realizing this now. I have messed up many potential relationship with this attitude until I met someone that just would not go alway.

You can over think something all you want before you act ..... and can be wrong. So why stress so much over someone else's perception of you?

All this conversation is showing me is that there are no universal answers so stop thinking so much and just enjoy as much of what you can in life on your own terms.

LOL, the only one over thinking this is you and the OP. With your 20 page essay and all.

[klmrocks]

Originally Posted by evilamai

LOL, the only one over thinking this is you and the OP. With your 20 page essay and all.

Mmmm I guess some people have more thoughts in general then others . The wheels in my brain are always running. I guess that is just not a universal thing .

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by klmrocks

Mmmm I guess some people have more thoughts in general then others . The wheels in my brain are always running. I guess that is just not a universal thing .

Too true.

Thank God that most C-D members never post. Or post one-liners.