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Ok but someone meeting me for a date and making an excuse to leave as soon as they see me, is not because my confidence. I’ll never forget it, I was thinner at this point also. This was about 12 years ago. We talked for a week and we planned to meet at a restaurant. We met out front and he waived and seemed very friendly. I saw he was on his phone so I walked inside to wait, he waived me outside and said his sisters car broke down and he had to go get her and would call me after. He never did. What else could that have meant?
The other way to look at it is you've likely dodged multiple bullets. Considering a lot of relationships end up in the chitter how good are all these ppls pickers anyway? Everyone has issues.
Over the years many really good looking girls have complained that they feel ignored by guys.
Let's face it, generally speaking, beautiful girls tend to be high maintenance & end up with wealthy guys. Unless they drive a Ferrari, most guys don't think they've got a chance so they don't bother trying.
We live in a shallow world.
Over the years many really good looking girls have complained that they feel ignored by guys.
Let's face it, generally speaking, beautiful girls tend to be high maintenance & end up with wealthy guys. Unless they drive a Ferrari, most guys don't think they've got a chance so they don't bother trying.
We live in a shallow world.
This is sadly true in a lot of cases....and I lived in Southern California.
But my friend who is 100 lbs overweight (and bad teeth and hair) gets men left and right.
No I’m not weird, no I don’t have an annoying voice or bad breath.
Sorry, having big breasts doesn't automatically make you beautiful. It appears that is what your main focus is on...
It takes a lot more then boobs to make you beautiful. Look in your inner mirror.. sometimes personality and the way you talk to someone has an effect on how you are perceived. The way you talk? The way you treat people? Who knows... There are a lot of things that take you out of someone's little black book.
Over the years many really good looking girls have complained that they feel ignored by guys.
Let's face it, generally speaking, beautiful girls tend to be high maintenance & end up with wealthy guys. Unless they drive a Ferrari, most guys don't think they've got a chance so they don't bother trying.
We live in a shallow world.
If you do bother trying, you might catch one. I married my trophy wife when I was a young lad, now I'm an old-ish man, and I've saved myself the trouble and expense of having to look again (and pay the first one off).
The big question is, Why is a married woman out there wanting to attract men to herself?
One thing being overlooked is the OP is married with a husband. If she is out there seeking a man like she makes it sound like she is, as he says her husband is impotent. The fact that a married woman is out there looking for a man's attention, is enough to keep them away. Decent men do not want to get involved with a married woman. The more the woman seeks men's attention, the more they run away from a married woman. A married woman is considered not acceptable to most men, especially married men, and men in a relationship with someone else..
Due to her being married, is enough to keep men away from her. The more she looks to be available to other men, the faster they will run from her. And they pass this fact around to other men, so they all just avoid her.
The big question is, Why is a married woman out there wanting to attract men to herself?
One thing being overlooked is the OP is married with a husband. If she is out there seeking a man like she makes it sound like she is, as he says her husband is impotent. The fact that a married woman is out there looking for a man's attention, is enough to keep them away. Decent men do not want to get involved with a married woman. The more the woman seeks men's attention, the more they run away from a married woman. A married woman is considered not acceptable to most men, especially married men, and men in a relationship with someone else..
Due to her being married, is enough to keep men away from her. The more she looks to be available to other men, the faster they will run from her. And they pass this fact around to other men, so they all just avoid her.
I understand what you are saying, but you make it sound like a married woman has a disease or something. Lol
I understand what you are saying, but you make it sound like a married woman has a disease or something. Lol
Not in anyway. But a set of rings on her finger, says OFF LIMIT, meaning not available. If a married woman is trying to be extra friendly with men, it says to men she is on the make behind her husbands back, and that says keep away.
The more she tries to attract other men to be around her, the more it drives them away.
People need to realize there are two types of infidelity, that are grounds for divorce in many states. #1 is sexual infidelity, with the woman having sex with other men. #2 is called emotional infidelity, with women giving their time and emotions to another man, behind her husbands back. Or the man can be committing infidelity.
When a married woman is complaining that men are not paying her the attention like they would a single woman, it says she is looking for thrills, and the men are not interested in giving her what she craves, and it upsets her.
And the more that she tries to get her thrills of having other men paying attention to her, the more it drives them away from her.
And something to think about. Emotional infidelity breaks up more marriages than sexual infidelity.
I have seen numerous marriages and relationships get in trouble over emotional infidelity.
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