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We forget that others, just like ourselves, must put themselves first. It's how we all survive. We are inately selfish. Once we accept that about everyone, we can maturely begin to then also make sure we give as much as we take.
Otherwise, we have a classic case of narcissism, forgetting that others value of self does not come in 2nd place to who we want or wish them to be, as that would be objectifying them, stripping them of their autonomy.
More details would be helpful though.....this is a blanket answer to an extremely vague question.
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