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The guys hogging the stage did absolutely nothing wrong. Hogging the stage and being egotistical is perfectly fine.
If you think this was all my fault, that's probably because YOU would have hogged the stage and YOU are egotistical.
*If you disagree with me then you are an awful person......*
I suspect you will continue to have problems getting along with people.
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The guys hogging the stage did absolutely nothing wrong. Hogging the stage and being egotistical is perfectly fine.
If you think this was all my fault, that's probably because YOU would have hogged the stage and YOU are egotistical.
Is the is old "I'm rubber and you're glue what you say bounces off me and sticks to you" defense? Honestly, if you hadn't thrown in the word "egotistical" I'd have thought these were the words of a 7 year old.
I do recognize, however, that introverts often do want to be ignored and left alone. I am somewhere between introvert and extrovert, depending on the social context. They might have perceived me as an introvert who wanted to be left alone.
I don't think you understand what introvert/extrovert really mean.
I'd have waited till a song was over and say "mind if I join you up there?" Again, with no audience it was a jam session, not an open mic, as another poster stated. You don't know how to do that without anger seeping through your words, so you just sit there and resent them later.
Regardless if the situation was your fault or not, your reaction was your fault, and that is the ONLY part any of us have control over. Again, do you want to be right or do you want to be happy?
Sorry, when they asked you if you were going to play you should have said YES.
This was a question with only 2 possible answers: yes or NO.
Your evasive answer meant no, so this is what they understood and that's why they left.
How did you want them to respond to your maybe? beg you? I'm sorry, your reaction is childish.
I wonder what makes people here so interested in arguing that I caused it?
Whenever there are problems between people, of any kind, there is usually some fault on both sides. Maybe one more than the other. But it's very seldom all caused by one person.
So if people had said these guys were inconsiderate, yet I should be more assertive, that would make some sense to me.
But if you say the whole problem was caused by me, then I have to be skeptical of your motives. I think you enjoy bashing. That is not unusual, it is a basic fact of human nature. Some more than others. And being anonymous lets you go wild with it.
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