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No I definitely don’t have a crush. And he isn’t doing it on purpose. He just probably thinks I’m ugly.
I am not trying to appease him. I say hello or smile like I would do to anyone who I pass.
How the heck would you know what he thinks? If he is being pointedly rude and you keep trying to smile and say hello then you are appeasing him, why. Why continue to say hello or smile, just ignore him, don’t have to be rude, but why reward rude behaviour?
How else can you explain why he talks to my young attractive co workers but not me or not unattractive young ones? Only thin ones with passable to pretty faces. And only older ones if their face and body are perfect.
How else can you explain why he talks to my young attractive co workers but not me or not unattractive young ones? Only thin ones with passable to pretty faces. And only older ones if their face and body are perfect.
Because he is a turd. You have a serious problem that has nothing to do with how you look. I suggest counseling because why you give a rats backside about this man is sad.
It’s not only this guy. And no I don’t say Hi or smile anymore. It’s seems to happen to me more than once.
Maybe it's you who are giving off a strange vibe, and projecting your insecurities. It's odd that your conclusion of these events is that "I'm ugly" and not "Bob is weird." I've got a coworker who is overly nice to the younger women, and my response is generally an eye-rolly, "the interns are not into you, man. You're their dad's age."
It’s not only this guy. And no I don’t say Hi or smile anymore. It’s seems to happen to me more than once.
I get the impression from your previous posts in the Work and Employment Forum that you don't have a good relationship with your co-workers. Maybe him not acknowledging you is part of that. Regardless, it's rude and he should be more polite and return a greeting.
I've got a coworker who is overly nice to the younger women, and my response is generally an eye-rolly, "the interns are not into you, man. You're their dad's age."
I deal with the public all day long. I meet many that are like your rude coworker, you smile and say hello and they will ignore you just to fall all over a more attractive coworker. When that happens, I speak REALLY LOUD and say hello AGAIN until they HEAR ME and are forced to acknowledge my existence. If they still behave rudely I ask them if they SPEAK ENGLISH. I can be annoyingly relentless. I don't let them have all the power in our interaction. Maybe you should take back some power too?
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