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Old 01-16-2019, 07:22 PM
 
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So... what do women prefer to happen after that in those stories? Is that the end?
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Old 01-16-2019, 07:31 PM
 
Location: SNA=>PDX 2013
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Oh this is kind of the opposite of my experience cause in my experience I have all this energy and sometimes want to go for 2-3 of hours, but the woman is exhausted and wants to be done in just 30 minutes to an hour tops, it seems.

I'd say you're not doing it right then (for that woman). If your styles aren't congruent, then yeah, they want it over. An ex went for hours and I was bored after 20 mins. Current bf can go for hours and I want more when he's done. Two very different styles. Guess which ones works for me. haha.
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Old 01-16-2019, 07:39 PM
 
Location: SNA=>PDX 2013
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https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review
I love when they do this. But then again, I'm a data girl.

I think many women don't like or watch porn because of how the female actors are portrayed and many women are insecure enough to think that whatever a man searches for is what he wants and is the only thing that gets him aroused. Meaning, if you're a 40-something Caucasian mom and he's looking for teen Asians, well, y'know, insecurity.

I like porn, but like another person posted, I'm super picky because the details set me off. I usually look for things that I want to do during my next encounter with the BF. Out of my gf's, I am not the norm whatsoever. But then again, I know a lot of men who don't like to watch it either.
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Old 01-16-2019, 07:49 PM
 
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So... what do women prefer to happen after that in those stories? Is that the end?
If you're referring to my post, they're ready to move forward with the relationship, and yes, it does kind of end after the rape and the declaration by the man being hopelessly in love. Goes on for maybe one more chapter.
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Old 01-16-2019, 08:12 PM
 
Location: Sugarland
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I find all these generalizations about “what men do” and “what women do” to be rather annoying. There are definitely women who use porn for masturbation purposes the same way that men do, and it doesn’t have to be “classy” or “romantic” porn that’s geared to women or couples.
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Old 01-16-2019, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Ft. Myers
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I was wondering about this cause a lot of times when I watch a video online, on a lot of sites, in order to play the video, you have to wait for porn advertisements to go by, and I noticed that there is always women in these porn advertisements.

You never see any with men in. So I was wondering if therefore, porn is much more popular with heterosexual men, compared to heterosexual women.

You see advertisements for Asian or Russian women wanting men, but you do not see advertisements for Asian or Russian men wanting women, or any men wanting women for that matter. Maybe if you go into some special sites you will, but the keywords are special sites, compared to just any sites where they have to show sex advertisements in order to host video content.

So I am wondering if for some reason, porn is just more popular with heterosexual men compared to other genders or sexual orientations, and why is that?

Uh huh, those porn sites just pop up, huh ? We've all used that line !
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Old 01-16-2019, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Myrtle Creek, Oregon
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Men are visual, women are auditory, the big porn genre that appeals to both is music videos.
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Old 01-16-2019, 09:04 PM
 
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men RENT porn more than women.
women BUY porn more.
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Old 01-16-2019, 09:37 PM
 
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men RENT porn more than women.
women BUY porn more.
This isn't the 1970s or 1980s or 1990s. Who rents or buys porn? You can get whatever you want for free on the internet.
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Old 01-16-2019, 09:39 PM
 
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I find it odd hearing about people going for hours. Hours??
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