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Old 11-09-2009, 03:39 AM
 
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I have always wondered that.All these gangbangers get tons of sex.Thats the main motive for these thugs.If women in mass decided not give it up to these men gangs would dry up overnight.I geuss violence makes alot of women horny.
I guess there are some women like that. They just want to see their man out there showing everyone who's boss, instead of watching him in front of the t.v all day long pigging out and talking smack without actually proving it.

But as women get older, usually that allure goes away. Its typical of very young women who live all their lives in a criminally inclined neighborhood. Usually low income. They are the kind to want to have boyfriends that will display "kick @ss" tendencies.

But not all women want that. Lots of women want to have a decent, peaceful man that will treat them with respect, and show themselves a good catch.
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Old 11-09-2009, 05:38 AM
 
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I think you're right, temptation. And think about this ... if you are a young lady in a criminally inclined neighborhood (like the one I grew up in), isn't it advantageous to have a boyfriend with a reputation for kicking *****? No one messes with the girl of a kick *** boyfriend. They mess with girls who have pu$$y boyfriends (or no boyfriend at all). It's all contextual ... it always is. Go ahead and pity the gfs of gangbangers if you want ... go ahead and look down on them, and underestimate them .. everyone else does it seems. They are smarter than you think. If you feel a particularly acute sense of pity for them, I recommend you redirect that pity toward yourself. Those gangbanging gfs probably have more heart than you will ever understand.


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I guess there are some women like that. They just want to see their man out there showing everyone who's boss, instead of watching him in front of the t.v all day long pigging out and talking smack without actually proving it.

But as women get older, usually that allure goes away. Its typical of very young women who live all their lives in a criminally inclined neighborhood. Usually low income. They are the kind to want to have boyfriends that will display "kick @ss" tendencies.

But not all women want that. Lots of women want to have a decent, peaceful man that will treat them with respect, and show themselves a good catch.

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Old 11-09-2009, 09:04 AM
 
Location: Baltimore
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I think it has more to do with the fact that these men put forth the image of masculinity. Unfortunately, as some of these women get older their preference does not change, because these are the men they're accustomed to being around.
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Old 11-09-2009, 09:10 AM
 
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I have always wondered that.All these gangbangers get tons of sex.Thats the main motive for these thugs.If women in mass decided not give it up to these men gangs would dry up overnight.I geuss violence makes alot of women horny.
Because these women are the counterparts of these men, they share the same pathology. They see it as passion.
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Old 11-09-2009, 09:18 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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I have always wondered that.All these gangbangers get tons of sex.Thats the main motive for these thugs.If women in mass decided not give it up to these men gangs would dry up overnight.I geuss violence makes alot of women horny.

So, you wanna be a gangbanger? Is that what you're telling us?
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Old 11-09-2009, 09:36 AM
 
Location: Cumberland Co., TN
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I thought the female gang members were required (forced) to have sex with all the male gang members. But then my only knowledge of gangbangers is what I see on TV.
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Old 11-09-2009, 10:36 AM
 
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Because these women are the counterparts of these men, they share the same pathology. They see it as passion.
Oh it's definitely passsion, malamute. There's no denying that. Is it passion pointed in the right direction? Probably not. But it's passion alright.
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Old 11-09-2009, 10:39 AM
 
Location: N of citrus, S of decent corn
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You wonder? Really? Low self esteem. Dr. Phil 101.
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Old 11-09-2009, 10:42 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I have always wondered that.All these gangbangers get tons of sex.Thats the main motive for these thugs.If women in mass decided not give it up to these men gangs would dry up overnight.I geuss violence makes alot of women horny.
Most of them get as much they can, they know there going to end up
dead or in federal prison.

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Old 11-09-2009, 10:48 AM
 
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You wonder? Really? Low self esteem. Dr. Phil 101.
Oh yeah, a girl who lives in a neighborhood where the strong routinely steal from and harm the weak must not esteem herself at all if she goes out and finds a really mean, mean man and parks him on her porch. lololol. Sorry, I don't mean to laugh.

Did ALL of you guys grow up in white bread land? I'm not trying to be offensive here, but the denseness of a good deal of the comments here is just baffling ... hmmmm... I guess it makes sense. The media portrays a ridiculously cartoonish view of the poor for the most part. I suppose if you didn't grow up in the hood, you don't understand the hood, so I suppose as the Boyz in the Hood would say, you should stay the f*** out of the hood.

Where are my boys at? I know at least some of you grew up hard and can shed some light for the softies. How about your rural mountain men... can you step outside of your color biases for just a moment and realize that the hard men of the Applachians have waaay more in common with the hard men of Compton than they ever want to admit? Hint: the Compton folks have just as much good heartedness as the mountain men (in addition to nastiness). It's just not a side the media cameras capture much, and the Compton folks don't want the message to get out anyways ... if people knew they had hearts, who knows who would show up on thier front door to roll them?
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