She Was My Best Friend

[Thursday007]

Thank you both. I just had it bad yesterday and last night and today when the dogs came in through the dog door so I could close it I actually stood there like, "where's Syd?" and waited for her for a second. That was kind of a weird feeling, she was always the last one in. While she is not the only dog I have parted with, my bond with her was very strong and it just seems like yesterday I was bringing her wrinkly butt home - I drove across the state to get her.



I appreciate everyone's input and empathy. It is healing and comforting to be amongst friends who understand the bond one can have with animals. I seem to be the only one in my family who was born with that gene. I'd rep the both of you but I can't yet either, so two paws up.

[Summerz]

Originally Posted by 3chidogs

Thursday,
I know exactly what you mean about having something trigger the grief reflect in you. I have had that happen too. I will think that I am moving ahead just fine, and then something will trigger a memory or thought, and suddenly I am back to day one, sobbing my heart out. The only thing I can say is that those times get further and further apart as time passes. Just remember, your precious Sydney's spirit does not feel the cold anymore. She is happy, young and strong again. Her resting place, be it a lovely place in your yard, or an urn on the mantel, is a gesture of your love and a place to focus your memories. She would be content with whatever you choose to ease your heart. I have you in my thoughts.

Same here, we lost Phoenix last summer, wasn't myself for a good month anyways, was ok/so so for awhile then last week a friend lost his Dog...it did bring back some sorrow,(quite a bit) but I expect it to be like that once in awhile and take one day at a time. (We can tell our 17 year old Cat really misses her. I always know I'm not alone.in the grief

Thursday007, Sydney is in your heart and memories, that is what is important. Happy just to be near you.

[3chidogs]

Thursday,
That picture shows a precious dog with such a loving face it thrills me! She is with you. I hope you frame that, it is priceless!