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Old 06-20-2007, 06:21 AM
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And what it comes down to....you're only here for a PhD....then you can move on if you still don't like it! Think of it as inspiration to finish your thesis faster!

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Old 06-20-2007, 06:59 AM
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And what it comes down to....you're only here for a PhD....then you can move on if you still don't like it! Think of it as inspiration to finish your thesis faster!
Agreed. Also, just remember the good times you had in Austin the good things about Austin. You don't have anything to prove to anyone but yourself.

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Old 06-20-2007, 07:09 AM
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We are relocating to Raleigh from Austin (the mecca of diversity, wierdness, hightech and live music). We visited Raleigh a couple of weeks back, and came back home in tears. What we saw was, to say the least, shocking. Overpriced homes with beaters in the driveway (a sign of people who work to simply pay the house payment), No greenbelts or hike and bike trails in your back yard (apparently you have to go to a park to get that), and your homeless people were actually homeless! Where's the love? Other people were walking down the streets--not for exercise, but because they didn't have a ride. We saw a few cyclists in Hillsborough and Pittsboro (but that was the only sign of outdoor exercise we witnessed). We saw one sad little farmer's market, but no artists kiosks or street musicians. Where is the culture? If one more person points us in the direction of the museums I think I'll scream! We were told to go to Durham for live music (We drove through Durham and kept on driving! I drive a Jaguar and figured the cat wouldn't be on the hood when I came back out.) We were then told to go to Chapel Hill. That's an awfully small town with a few quaint shops and restaruants, but nothing to write home about! Is this what we have to look forward to? Overpriced homes, driving out of town or having to fight the college students to hear a good band, museums, nothing to do but work to pay the mortgage? Please tell us it isn't so!
Wow, what a post! Since when are homeless people not supposed to be homeless? I don't like to see someone without a home, but would you rather the panhandlers be the type that beg all day and walk to the municipal lot and get into their Jag at the end of the day? Don't laugh, I've seen it happen (not in Raleigh, though).

Anyway, PhD in Genomics/Plant Path...hmm, well I used to work with several molecular geneticists working on plant pathogens (one an NCSU grad), and while they are certainly a quirky lot, none had quite the elitist attitude that displayed in that post. Chances are that you will not have time for much other than school if you are going to be working on a PhD while you're here, so I'm not sure what the wadded panties are all about...

No one exercising? I guess you didn't drive by Shelley Lake or Lake Lynn on a typical afternoon - those lakes are part of the greenway and are packed with people on any given day, biking, walking, jogging, skating. I see people jogging all the time in neighborhoods and even downtown! The greenway system is one of the things I love about the area. We have many friends who enjoy cycling, running, kayaking, hiking - sometimes it's all about the people you surround yourself with.

Let's see, culture. The first Friday of every month ArtSpace downtown opens its doors to the public to view art in the artists' studios and enjoy some wine. Many other galleries coordinate openings at the same time. I read something recently about the American Dance Festival coming to town. I've been to the downtown street painting festival, there is a World Beer Festival in both Raleigh and Durham, Artsplosure - those are just a few. There is also the Downtown Live Music Series in Moore Square during the summer - FREE concerts.

That's about as much energy as I'm willing to expend on someone who was worried about the kitty on her Jag in Durham - LOL. I know Durham gets a bad rap, but it ain't nothing like a real bad area in other cities. If Austin is really as "weird" as it wants everyone to think it is (I have no idea, never been, so I can't judge), then I'd think the people who live there would have more of an open mind and adventurous side, rather than expecting everything to be handed to them front and center. At least you know you'll only be here as long as it takes to get that PhD, so I just say, make the best of it that you can.

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Old 06-20-2007, 07:13 AM
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Wow, what a post! Since when are homeless people not supposed to be homeless? I don't like to see someone without a home, but would you rather the panhandlers be the type that walk to the municipal lot and get into their Jag at the end of the day? Don't laugh, I've seen it happen (not in Raleigh, though).

Anyway, PhD in Genomics/Plant Path...hmm, well I used to work with several molecular geneticists working on plant pathogens (one an NCSU grad), and while they are certainly a quirky lot, none had quite the elitist attitude that displayed in that post. Chances are that you will not have much time for any mcuh other than school if you are going to be working on a PhD while you're here, so I'm not sure what the wadded panties are all about...
No one exercising? I guess you didn't drive by Shelley Lake or Lake Lynn on a typical afternoon - those lakes are part of the greenway and are packed with people on any given day, biking, walking, jogging, skating. I see people jogging all the time in neighborhoods and even downtown! The greenway system is one of the things I love about the area. We have many friends who enjoy cycling, running, kayaking, hiking - sometimes it's all about the people you surround yourself with.

Let's see, culture. The first Friday of every month ArtSpace downtown opens its doors to the public to view art in the artists' studios and enjoy some wine. Many other galleries coordinate openings at the same time. I read something recently about the American Dance Festival coming to town. I've been to the downtown street painting festival, there is a World Beer Festival in both Raleigh and Durham, Artsplosure - those are just a few. There is also the Downtown Live Music Series in Moore Square during the summer - FREE concerts.

That's about as much energy as I'm willing to expend on someone who was worried about the kitty on her Jag in Durham - LOL. I know Durham gets a bad rap, but it ain't nothing like a real bad area in other cities. If Austin is really as "weird" as it wants everyone to think it is (I have no idea, never been, so I can't judge), then I'd think the people who live there would have more of an open mind and adventurous side, rather than expecting everything to be handed to them front and center.
I think you have said it all! Classic! Thank you so much for making this day a little brighter!

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Old 06-20-2007, 07:13 AM
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I just moved to Cary (which is 9 miles west of Raleigh) from Phoenix, Arizona. We absolutely LOVE it here. However, it all depends on what you are looking for in life. We wanted a safe, family oriented environment to raise our children in & Cary is the perfect place. It's not too big or too small & their are tons of family activities & events. We are in our 30's & have met a lot of families our age which has been great. I don't know if you have children or want children in the future, but if so, this is a great place to raise them. Otherwise, it doesn't sound like you will find much here that you enjoy. It is definately different then where you come from. Personally I Love everything that is different about it. It's a Wonderful place to live.

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Old 06-20-2007, 07:57 AM
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The most miserable person I met since I lived here was a guy who moved here against his will.
He hated everything about the South, and let everyone know it.
He could be a warm, engaging person, but that bitterness of his concealed those traits to most people.
He had a beautiful wife, a great kid, and hated where he lived.

I asked him why he didn't go "Home."
Him, "Couldn't make a living."
I thought, you don't look to me like you missed too many meals.

One of my favorite kids song is "Brighten The Corner Where You Are."
Brighten the Corner Where You Are

If one can't find a corner to brighten in Raleigh, Durham, Chapel Hill, Cary, Garner, Knightdale, Wendell, Morrisville, Zebulon, Fuquay Varina, Apex, Wake Forest, Rolesville, Creedmoor, Louisburg, Butner, Hillsborough, Sanford, Lillington, etc, then one should find a corner they are willing to brighten and not inflict their sourness needlessly on others!

Best of luck! I hope you make a choice that improves your life and the lives of those you meet along the way!
I love this line of thinking. "I hate it here but I couldn't afford where I was"!? So you hate that you can afford a great house with a great yard and relatively low taxes? Or that you can feel safe when you go to sleep at night? Or when you drive your car (beater or beauty) around town? OR that traffic is nonexistant compared to big cities? This is illogical. What brought you here and allows you to live and work and raise a family in relative peace and security is what you hate? Come on.

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Old 06-20-2007, 07:58 AM
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My neighbors moved here from Austin and they love it here. Life is what you make of it. Obviously there are many on here that choose to be unhappy with what they have and are given. Lets put it this way if you go to a beach and complain about the sand all the time you are bound to miss the dolphins swimming by the warm beautiful water the smell of the ocean and the awesome sunset.

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Old 06-20-2007, 08:09 AM
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I loved her attitude about homeless people. Yup, if there are homeless people, the place is a cultural wasteland. Absolutely, without a doubt. I noticed that when I lived in San Francisco. I had to step over scores of homeless people on my walk from the ferry terminal to my office building. And we all know how devoid of culture and personality San Francisco is....

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Old 06-20-2007, 08:47 AM
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My neighbors moved here from Austin and they love it here. Life is what you make of it. Obviously there are many on here that choose to be unhappy with what they have and are given. Lets put it this way if you go to a beach and complain about the sand all the time you are bound to miss the dolphins swimming by the warm beautiful water the smell of the ocean and the awesome sunset.
Oh, I like that analogy!

Good one, Cakd!

Vicki

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Old 06-20-2007, 08:52 AM
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As a rule, most people here are not impressed by a fancy car. I live on a street of houses with values of 2 to 3 times the median price for the Raleigh area. Most of my neighbors can buy any car they want. Most of them drive older Hondas, Toyotas, or Saturns. The Honda Odyssey is the official car of my neighborhood for moms. People would rather spend their money on family vacations or save than drop $50K on a car. That's just not the way we roll around here.

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