Honestly, I had to look this one up. I learned something new today.
I had never heard of candlepin bowling, I am surprised that we don't have that here considering all the new ppl that move here.
But, a quick search and wikipedia shows "that Candlepin bowling is a variation of bowling that is confined to the New England states, and to the Canadian Maritime provinces of New Brunswick, and Nova Scotia (with one isolated candlepin center in Wyoming, Ohio, a suburb of Cincinnati)."
Most of the bowling here is traditional ten pin bowling.
Here are 2 that I know of in Cary:
AMF Bowling Center
301 Nottingham Dr, Cary - (919) 467-2411
Buffaloe Lanes Cary Family
151 High House Rd, Cary - (919) 468-8684