Right now I'm planning on relocating from Long Island to the Raleigh area. (how many posts start like that.. LOL) I've visited twice already, and will be again in a few days to find out as much as I can before a possible move in the fall. I've seen houses, neighborhoods, shopping places, etc. But one thing that's hard for me is to get a sense of people's attitudes. I'm not a very outgoing, talkative person so it's hard to ask people "hey do you like it here!" when I see them on the street. (Plus I'm from NY, where you don't really do that
So without starting any kind of religious war, me and the family are atheists. Not the militant kind, I'm not looking to convert anyway, but I would appreciate that in kind as well. I don't want parents of kids not letting them hang around with my child because they think I'm "the devil" or something silly like that. (I don't want to be ostracized)
I'd ask how religious the areas are, but I don't know if that's a fair question because I'm sure it could vary greatly. It's not the only thing I want to base a decision on, but if I had to go with a smaller house in CH and would fit in better there, it would probably be the better choice.
I've visited Cary a lot, so this time I want to focus more on CH/C and places like Hillsborough. I've read the forum a bit and wonder if this area would be better for a family who doesn't want to hang around the community pool all summer long.
Oh and if anyone would like to chime in on the job situation down there, I'd be all ears. I'm speaking with recruiters while I'm down there, but sometimes they have a tendency to paint too rosy a picture.
Thanks for any advice in advance. I really like area, and I hope it ends up working out for me.