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Old 05-03-2012, 08:22 AM
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Location: NC/SC Border Patrol
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Originally Posted by Francois View Post
(Some) companies CHOOSE to cover domestic partners of their employees. Nobody is forced by the government to do so; it's a free-market benefit where a company believes it can sweeten the pot to potential employees and perhaps give them an edge over other companies. NO company would be forced to offer domestic partner benefits in any case, and rejecting the amendment would simply leave things exactly as they are now. However, passage of the Amendment would force companies to STOP offering benefits that they wanted to offer. If that's not "Big Brother" government interfering in the private affairs of business, I don't know what is.
When private companies or the government employers offer free-market benefits to their employees; we, the people, will always end up footing the bill. I don't want to pay the insurance for "friends" of employees of banks or the state or anyone else that chooses to pay the expenses of people that are not legally married. Every now and then, we, the people need laws that keep us from being abused by those that decide we should pay for others lifestyles. So if you want to "shack up" in North Carolina, pay for your "shacking rights" yourself.

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Old 05-03-2012, 08:30 AM
 
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When private companies or the government employers offer free-market benefits to their employees; we, the people, will always end up footing the bill. I don't want to pay the insurance for "friends" of employees of banks or the state or anyone else that chooses to pay the expenses of people that are not legally married. Every now and then, we, the people need laws that keep us from being abused by those that decide we should pay for others lifestyles. So if you want to "shack up" in North Carolina, pay for your "shacking rights" yourself.
Nor do I want to "foot the bill" for folks receiving free-market benefits from their employers who have narrow and bigoted views.

Can we that that on the ballot in Novemeber as well?

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Old 05-03-2012, 08:33 AM
 
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Things that make you go Hmmm,

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Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof....

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Old 05-03-2012, 08:38 AM
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Location: NC/SC Border Patrol
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Nor do I want to "foot the bill" for folks receiving free-market benefits from their employers who have narrow and bigoted views.

Can we that that on the ballot in Novemeber as well?
If you want to do this, just try to get it through the North Carolina legislature, put it on the ballot and see how it flies. LOL This bill is legal. The one you want would not be.
 
Old 05-03-2012, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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A few days ago, I heard rumor that there was an NC Constitutional Amendment that could be discussed here:

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Not trying to start any political/religious fire here, but I thought this was a good summary of Amendment One that will be on the ballot May 8.

No matter which way you're voting, its important to understand what you're voting on, as best as possible.

How would Amendment One affect your life? | Cover | Creative Loafing Charlotte


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A quick note from the mod:

I understand that this is a state-wide issue, but voting will be done locally, so it's fine to discuss here. However, the expectation is that it will be discussed sanely, rationally and respectfully. Posts that steer the thread off-topic will likely be deleted, personal attacks will definitely be deleted, and if a political/religious "fire" DOES break out, I'll have no choice but to shut the thread down.


Let the discussion begin!
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Old 05-03-2012, 08:46 AM
 
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If you want to do this, just try to get it through the North Carolina legislature, put it on the ballot and see how it flies. LOL This bill is legal. The one you want would not be.
The difference is...??
 
Old 05-03-2012, 08:52 AM
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I think this bill is basically about what I stated in the post and I see it as a good bill and I don't understand anyone thinking this would keep any business that would be beneficial to our state out of North Carolina. I would think most businesses would be joyful of not having to decide whether anyone is eligible to be insured, etc., and know there is a legal ground to protect them from people that do not live by the law. Sometimes we just need things in writing so we can all know we are on the same page.

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Old 05-03-2012, 09:05 AM
 
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I think this bill is basically about what I stated in the post and I see it as a good bill and I don't understand anyone thinking this would keep any business that would be beneficial to our state out of North Carolina. I would think most businesses would be joyful of not having to decide whether anyone is eligible to be insured, etc., and know there is a legal ground to protect them from people that do not live by the law. Sometimes we just need things in writing so we can all know we are on the same page.

If I was opening a business that needed a talented pool of employees I would not open said business in a state that would be viewed by potential job applicants as less desirable because the state had passed such a discriminatory amendment. I would want to open my business in a state with an environment that was inviting to all people and didn't treat a portion of the population, some of whom may be my best employee prospects (ie. high ed, creative class work force) as second class citizens. I would open my business in a a more open minded state if Amendment One were to pass.

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Old 05-03-2012, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Durm
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If I was opening a business that needed a talented pool of employees I would not open said business in a state that would be viewed by potential job applicants as less desirable because the state had passed such a discriminatory amendment. I would want to open my business in a state with an environment that was inviting to all people and didn't treat a portion of the population, some of whom may be my best employee prospects (ie. high ed, creative class work force) as second class citizens. I would open my business in a a more open minded state if Amendment One were to pass.
^^This.

More and more businesses are covering domestic partnerships.

NCN, you said this:

"I would think most businesses would be joyful of not having to decide whether anyone is eligible to be insured, etc., and know there is a legal ground to protect them from people that do not live by the law."

First of all, they always decide whether or not someone is eligible to be insured. And as noted above, they may not like said law - there are other states that would be happy to have their business and have those jobs.

(sometimes it is so hard to follow the guidelines...I try, I try...tongue is about to fall off from all of the biting)
 
Old 05-03-2012, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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^^This.

More and more businesses are covering domestic partnerships.

NCN, you said this:

"I would think most businesses would be joyful of not having to decide whether anyone is eligible to be insured, etc., and know there is a legal ground to protect them from people that do not live by the law."

First of all, they always decide whether or not someone is eligible to be insured. And as noted above, they may not like said law - there are other states that would be happy to have their business and have those jobs.

(sometimes it is so hard to follow the guidelines...I try, I try...tongue is about to fall off from all of the biting)
Me too!
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