North Carolina Museum of Art - Outreach Exhibitions (http://www.ncartmuseum.org/exhibitions/current.shtml - broken link)
I'm taking Sweetie to see the Impressionists.
Carolina Hurricanes - Schedule (http://hurricanes.nhl.com/team/app?service=page&page=TeamSchedule - broken link)
The Canes have 7 January home games, and there are always tix on craigslist.
You will be required to eat a plate of fine Eastern North Carolina pulled pork barbecue at Clyde Cooper's, since 1938.
Eat some bad food (in moderation) at the top of the Clarion, iconic cylindrical/former Holiday Inn on Hillsborough Street and look down on much of the center of Raleigh.
I can take you for the pawnshop tour, if you want to honor your honey with someone else's jewelry...
There's other stuff...
I'll yield the floor and let someone else elaborate some, for awhile.