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Old 04-05-2014, 07:57 AM
 
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Be careful, my neighbors are in a big fued over something like this.

The neighbor that complained about the noise got charged with racial intimidation and ended up getting arrested.

My suggestion is to call it quits and move.
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:00 AM
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Be careful, my neighbors are in a big fued over something like this.

The neighbor that complained about the noise got charged with racial intimidation and ended up getting arrested.

My suggestion is to call it quits and move.
OP is an owner.
Loud Person is a tenant.
OP is a stakeholder in the neighborhood.

Race never was mentioned and doesn't have to be a factor.
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:11 AM
 
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So are you in a HOA? If so, what does the manager say?
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:28 AM
 
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It's not a HOA.. We specifically made sure it wasn't prior to purchase to protect the future of an American flag hanging.
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:31 AM
 
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The neighbor that complained about the noise got charged with racial intimidation and ended up getting arrested.

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Something tells me there is more to the story than what is posted here.
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:36 AM
 
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Something tells me there is more to the story than what is posted here.
Lol.. I doubt it. My brothers buddy got charged with that for telling a guy off when he rammed his car during an illegal turn into traffic. No slurs were given, he wasn't even accused of slurs. But busted he was.. strange deal.
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Old 04-05-2014, 08:56 AM
 
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Be "that person."
Contact the owner/landlord/property manager and ask for a resolution.
Then, call the cops if it doesn't cease.

Be "that person." Or, learn to enjoy it.
This. You talked directly to the neighbor. Now it is time to talk to the landlord. No resolution and it continues? Call the police. Those are your options and that is the course that should be taken. Good luck!
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Old 04-05-2014, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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Be "that person."
Contact the owner/landlord/property manager and ask for a resolution.
Then, call the cops if it doesn't cease.

Be "that person." Or, learn to enjoy it.
Agree. But contact the landlord in writing - email is fine - to show that you have contacted them. Phone conversations disappear in the wind. . .

And as far as the American flag comment, that's a threat that's WAY overblown. The HOA might have been helpful in this situation. At least the immediate neighbors are already on the same wavelength in that they've accepted the concept of an HOA.
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Old 04-05-2014, 10:24 AM
 
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Agree. But contact the landlord in writing - email is fine - to show that you have contacted them. Phone conversations disappear in the wind. . .

And as far as the American flag comment, that's a threat that's WAY overblown. The HOA might have been helpful in this situation. At least the immediate neighbors are already on the same wavelength in that they've accepted the concept of an HOA.
Overblown by whom? We had to fight to ours flying for 3 years.
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Old 04-05-2014, 10:43 AM
 
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Overblown by whom? We had to fight to ours flying for 3 years.
The CC&R's would have detailed the specific limitations, which are nearly always related to the size of the flag. If you signed the docs, then didn't follow them, how is that the HOA's fault? If, in fact, the HOA disallowed any flying of the US Flag, the stars and stripes of ANY size , then shame on them, and thank you for fighting it. (note I'm not including University, Pro team, state or misc flags here. I have no problem with HOA's banning them from permanent placement. A weekend party is plenty.)
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