We just relocated here from Los Angeles last July. We lived in Magnolia Pointe (right down the road from Independence park). Looked great on the website and was a brand new complex at the time. However, it was like living in South Central Los Angeles all over again! Private message me if you want specifics.
I was also tempted by Independence Park. Nice houses and even nicer prices

At the end of the day we ended up breaking our lease early (buying it completely out BTW) and buying a house in Mebane. I love the central durham / Trinity Park area and would have bought there but couldn't talk my spouse into it. He grew up in LA his whole life and wanted to live in the "country" so Mebane fit our needs.
BCR gave you some good advice, the apts by Costco are nice and I have a couple friends who live there. There are a lot of nice apartments near 15/501 on the south side of Durham as well. I know what you're going through and just helped my sister find an apartment after relocating as well so if you want some additional info just PM me.
Good luck!