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Unread 10-16-2009, 01:01 PM
 
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Everyone has been so helpful! I really appreciate all the helpful suggestions and links. This has been so hard... and overwhelming. I'm going to just keep this open and go through the links one by one. Thanks again all!
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Unread 10-16-2009, 01:08 PM
 
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A good friend was diagnosed with Alzheimers at 53 and it seems like we are hearing younger ages all the time. I respect your decision to help them out but may I suggest right now you put your focus on your father as he will be the primary caregiver and will need so much support. Caregivers tend to burn out very quickly especially when dealing with dementia. Encourage him to seek and take support from lots of different sources. Respite programs are so great for caregivers too. Just some time off from the constant state of alert he has to be in when caring for your Mom can be energizing. Good luck and best wishes.
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Thanks for that suggestion. He is having a rough time handling it, which is why I'm trying to help out anyway I can... I'll look into resources for him too. Thanks again.
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Unread 12-29-2009, 02:24 PM
 
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BDavis511 - I'm in the same boat with my mother - she has dementia and not alot of money either. Did you ever find a place for your parents ? I have several phone calls out to different people but haven't found out anything yet. Did you ever find a place for your parents ? THANKS !! Missy
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Unread 12-29-2009, 02:39 PM
 
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Here are some links, one for NC Division for Aging (which has many resource links) and one for information about assisted living facilities. Hope this helps...
NC Division of Aging and Adult Services-Trade/Advocacy Groups
NCALA :: North Carolina Assisted Living Association | Home Page
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Unread 12-29-2009, 04:51 PM
 
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Default Thanks Didee

I'll check those out
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