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Unread 06-11-2010, 08:25 PM
 
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Unhappy You know, I just realized it - I am 23 and haven't had my first kiss yet.

I've had a few brief flings with girls, but never an actual relationship. I've never really had my first kiss yet. Actually, I don't think I remember becoming serious with girls until I left HS and started going to college.
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Unread 06-11-2010, 10:36 PM
 
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I've had a few brief flings with girls, but never an actual relationship. I've never really had my first kiss yet. Actually, I don't think I remember becoming serious with girls until I left HS and started going to college.
You are in college and into Martial Arts and aren't getting any women interested in you at all, correct? It's their loss!
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Unread 06-11-2010, 10:39 PM
 
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Incroyable!
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Unread 06-11-2010, 10:57 PM
 
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This is cliche, but I reckon there is truth in the saying "it will come in time".

Until then, be positive and have confidence in yourself. I don't think anybody is truly undateable.

As for why it comes in time, I don't really know. Some say it's karma, others just luck. But (to use another cliche) it may come when you least suspect.
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Unread 06-12-2010, 07:53 AM
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Location: South Arlington, Virginia
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I've had a few brief flings with girls, but never an actual relationship. I've never really had my first kiss yet. Actually, I don't think I remember becoming serious with girls until I left HS and started going to college.
I'm 22 and haven't gotten close to a kiss unless you count a 2nd grade awkward moment that I didn't want. I'm questioning am I even dateable?
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Unread 06-12-2010, 08:39 AM
 
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I'm dateable, last supposed girl that was interested blew off our date, so I never really bothered to find out why because I basically ignore her now. I TRY and I repeat TRY and be nice when she speaks to me, but I usually talk in a "I'm angry" or "Hi and ignore you" way.

Anyhow, I'm not really in a rush per say as right now, I kinda enjoy being free.
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Unread 06-14-2010, 12:01 AM
 
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I've had a few brief flings with girls, but never an actual relationship. I've never really had my first kiss yet. Actually, I don't think I remember becoming serious with girls until I left HS and started going to college.
same here

out of billions of people, I'm sure there's more like us

...meh

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Unread 06-14-2010, 10:51 AM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm 2 months away from turning 25 and I still haven't had my first kiss.
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Unread 06-14-2010, 10:56 AM
 
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Not too worry, there is enough manly love to go around as some men can juggle several girls at once. You will not be missed.

Consider that motivation to do something about it.
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Unread 06-14-2010, 11:24 AM
 
Location: Wyoming
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You're 23 and "just realized" you've never kissed? How is that possible?

Yanno, a kiss doesn't necessarily strip you of your freedom.
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