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I have a question and I'm interested in what you think about that.
I really like a girl in college and once I asked her out. We met and had a relatively good time. After a few days I sent her an email to meet her again that she refused because she was ill, but she also wrote that we can meet after that. Then we changed some emails but after one she did not reply.
Then I saw her in the school after an exam. She was talking to another boy and didn't even say hello to me.
Do you think she could be still interested if I ask her out in email...? Or what do you think I should do...? (I don't know her phone number and I won't see her in school in the summer).
I'm looking forward to your replies. They will be appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
M
Last edited by Moricka; 06-24-2010 at 08:26 AM..
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Why didn't you exchange phone numbers after the first date? Try asking her in person. If you can't, send one more email for good measure. If she's still luke warm or doesn't return your email then you have your answer. Time to move on.
I have a question and I'm interested in what you think about that.
I really like a girl in college and once I asked her out. We met and had a relatively good time. After a few days I sent her an email to meet her again that she refused because she was ill, but she also wrote that we can meet after that. Then we changed some emails but after one she did not reply.
Then I saw her in the school after an exam. She was talking to another boy and didn't even say hello to me.
Do you think she could be still interested if I ask her out in email...? Or what do you think I should do...? (I don't know her phone number and I won't see her in school in the summer).
I'm looking forward to your replies. They will be appreciated.
Thanks in advance,
M
Then, as my fellow posters have stated, she may not be interested...sometimes a semi-direct approach works ('I'd like to see you again...are you OK with that?')...and in this internet age, e-mail can be used a kind of last resort, but truly, if she didn't acknowledge your presence, either online or offline, then it's best if you chalk it up as a life lesson, and move on...
You're a young man, and the world is your oyster right now...if a young lady doesn't return your 'overtures', then the world won't end at 330pm that day LOL...take your time and concentrate on your studies, and soon enough, that 'one' will cross your path when you least expect it
Why didn't you exchange phone numbers after the first date? Try asking her in person. If you can't, send one more email for good measure. If she's still luke warm or doesn't return your email then you have your answer. Time to move on.
What CH said. If she's not responding, smiling when she sees you, etc., then she's probably not interested. Maybe she met someone else. But maybe she's been busy and didn't see you after class ... I'd give it ONE more shot. If she's receptive, get her phone number! None of this e-mail nonsense.
You're giving up way to easy. Send her an e-mail everyday until she says NO. :-)
OP - DO NOT take this advice. That screams pathetic & desperate.
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