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Old 07-07-2010, 01:41 PM
 
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I don't know much about her other than her pics but yeah I would based on pics. However if she is unwilling to do sometimes what sprawling homeowner mentioned I would eventually feel unfullfilled. I don't want to just f*** normally all the time. I want a girl with dirty kink side who likes to be a exhibitionist on camera.
You DO know that there aren't necessarily a lot of women who do this, and that a lot of the younger women whose raunchy videos (not necessarily porn) or jpgs floating online are, well, YOUNG and probably unaware of what they were doing, do you not?
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Old 07-07-2010, 01:42 PM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Seeniorita, when it comes to a woman being bodacious/hot, most men wouldn't care if it was Jenna Jameson. Never mind that Jameson is probably the most easily recognized female porn star in America - if the man in question had a chance, AND if it was verified that Jameson (or any other porn starlet who was similarly hot) were completely clean of any STDs, including of course HIV, the said man would not refuse.

Now, DATING is a different story - assuming of course the man wants more than just sex from a dating relationship, which in my humble view is what a healthy and normal heterosexual man should wish for when/if he enters a dating relationship with a woman.
So you're saying they would just want to have sex with her......that she is not worthy of dating or even marriage?
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Old 07-07-2010, 01:45 PM
 
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I would not even DATE a guy who has had multiple sexual partners. That's disgusting!
How about a virgin male? Or, you do know that a guy might be expecting, just like you, to not have mutiple partners from your past, right?
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Old 07-07-2010, 01:47 PM
 
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I think if I was dating a man and found out he did pornography (and I'm not talking about home-made videos), but serious porn that is allover the internet, my question would be "why?" Is it just for the money, for sex, he couldn't get it in any other way?

I guess my train of thought is that some women and men who have done pornography have certain issues that are far beyond the pornography itself. Is it insecurity? Is it the high of getting money for sex? What is it and what pushed them into doing it?
I would be more concerned with those issues than the actual fact of them being porn stars. Not to mention that leaving that world can leave anyone with an emotional baggage.
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Old 07-07-2010, 01:48 PM
 
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So you're saying they would just want to have sex with her......that she is not worthy of dating or even marriage?
Speaking as a man, what I am saying is that men, and much of society in general, do not necessarily look at women who do porn as paragons of character.

Now, it may be that a woman who did porn only for, say, 2 or 3 productions, and is an otherwise upstanding citizen and person of exemplary character, is a much better individual, of greater decency that a woman who hasn't done porn, but who is conniving, devious, etc.

Nonetheless, people make judgments, and whether this is fair or not, judgmental or not, men don't want to go to bed knowing that their girlfriends/wives were/are in the virtual world and/or in print having sex with multiple men - for a living.
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Old 07-07-2010, 01:52 PM
 
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I think if I was dating a man and found out he did pornography (and I'm not talking about home-made videos), but serious porn that is allover the internet, my question would be "why?" Is it just for the money, for sex, he couldn't get it in any other way?

I guess my train of thought is that some women and men who have done pornography have certain issues that are far beyond the pornography itself. Is it insecurity? Is it the high of getting money for sex? What is it and what pushed them into doing it?

I would be more concerned with those issues than the actual fact of them being porn stars. Not to mention that leaving that world can leave anyone with an emotional baggage.
Max's Mama, you raise solid and interesting points.

Many porn starlets, of both genders, have committed suicide or died premature, and oftentimes, violent deaths. A lot of them perished via drug overdoses, self-inflicted gunshots, or terrible auto accidents; some jumped off high structures to their deaths.

I do not have evidence handy right at this moment, but supposedly a lot of women who enter porn do so by first becoming strippers; and, that some of these women have come from troubled backgrounds - poor families, abusive fathers (sometimes sexually abusive fathers), drugs, or a combination of such factors.

Yes, there may be and probably are women from normal, middle-class families who for whatever reason wanted to do porn and did it and did not regret it.

It's more than just a woman choosing to enter this profession; it's a vicious industry that treats women (and men) like cattle.

But as I said, drug abuse is very much part of the porn world; I've read testimonies in which women said they'd swoon from mixes of heavy drinking and drug usage, which sometimes became necessary just so they could function enough to get behind camera.
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Old 07-07-2010, 02:00 PM
 
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Jenna Jameson's 25 good reasons why no one would ever want to become a porn star
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Old 07-07-2010, 02:03 PM
 
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How about a virgin male? Or, you do know that a guy might be expecting, just like you, to not have mutiple partners from your past, right?
I have no issues with that.
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Old 07-07-2010, 02:03 PM
 
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Speaking as a man, what I am saying is that men, and much of society in general, do not necessarily look at women who do porn as paragons of character.

Now, it may be that a woman who did porn only for, say, 2 or 3 productions, and is an otherwise upstanding citizen and person of exemplary character, is a much better individual, of greater decency that a woman who hasn't done porn, but who is conniving, devious, etc.

Nonetheless, people make judgments, and whether this is fair or not, judgmental or not, men don't want to go to bed knowing that their girlfriends/wives were/are in the virtual world and/or in print having sex with multiple men - for a living.
That's the sad truth of it all right there. No matter what a woman's reason for doing pornography, for some it will never be justifiable and therefore never finding them worthy of being called Mrs.
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Old 07-07-2010, 02:04 PM
 
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I have no issues with that.
Good for you .

Also, as for the not wanting a guy that had multiple partners, remember that maybe that guy who didn't had multiple partners might want the same.
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