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Old 07-15-2010, 07:56 PM
 
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She said both men and women should control them.
Yes but men have never had to. Women have had to for decades.

It's never been unacceptable for a man to play the field. They aren't ostracised or called names.

 
Old 07-15-2010, 07:56 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Why can't a woman just wanting to go out and get laid mean she just wants to go out and get laid? Why does it have to mean she's a 5lut with no self respect? Geez Louise
I don't believe Robee called anyone 5luts and I don't actually think a woman who sleeps with anyone she wants is a 5lut. But she better keep that part of her past to herself and not reveal too much to her potential partner.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 07:56 PM
 
Location: lala land
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Just because a woman is selective about who she sleeps with or chooses not to just jump into bed because some guy got her panties all wet, does not make her sexually inhibited.

I thought evolving as a society means we are more aware & accepting of men and women's needs & urges, yet still capable of controlling them.
You are assuming a whole lot Robee. And you know what they say about people that assume right? ... ok

We never said that women in order to be sexually liberated should sleep with anything that moves. You may be surprised to know this, but as much as I advocate women being men's sexually liberated equals, I have not been with very many people. Its not because I'm inhibited, but merely a matter of preference. Sex with a man that I'm not head over heels in love with, sucks. I've tried it before, not my cup of tea.

Stop assuming and jumping to conclusions.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 07:58 PM
 
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Yes but men have never had to. Women have had to for decades.

It's never been unacceptable for a man to play the field. They aren't ostracised or called names.
Men are too called names...I guess you've never been in a football locker room.

I can only be alive in this century...I expect myself, and I'm sure my parents expected me to act responsible with my genitals.

You really can do whatever you want. But I will tell you that I would not be attracted to a woman that had a cavialier attitude about sex. I don't know how many other guys would view it the same way.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 07:59 PM
 
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I don't actually think a woman who sleeps with anyone she wants is a 5lut. But she better keep that part of her past to herself and not reveal too much to her potential partner.
But what does that mean?

Say she is 35 and has been with 20 people, and her potential partner is the same age with the same number of past partners. They both had their fun in their youth and lived it up. Why should she be judged differently to him (which she would be)?

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Old 07-15-2010, 07:59 PM
 
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You are assuming a whole lot Robee. And you know what they say about people that assume right? ... ok

We never said that women in order to be sexually liberated should sleep with anything that moves. You may be surprised to know this, but as much as I advocate women being men's sexually liberated equals, I have not been with very many people. Its not because I'm inhibited, but merely a matter of preference. Sex with a man that I'm not head over heels in love with, sucks. I've tried it before, not my cup of tea.

Stop assuming and jumping to conclusions.
AllaboutEve, I also didn't have that many sexual partners in my life. A lot less than I'm sure some may assume.
However, did you notice a little something interesting about your post? You were quick to defend and proudly proclaim that you didn't have a lot of partners in your life. I wonder if you would be just as vocal if it was the opposite.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 08:00 PM
 
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My idealistic side wants to agree with you, but my realistic side strongly disagrees. Damn Gemini.
I'm the most idealistic Capricorn I know, its ok MM . Agree to disagree, or maybe one day one of us will convert the other.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 08:00 PM
 
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Men are too called names...I guess you've never been in a football locker room.
What? Manwhore? Giggolo?

I'm talking about names that hurt. Dirty, offensive names that make people look down on you.
 
Old 07-15-2010, 08:01 PM
 
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But why should women control them? For years it was only the men having all the fun, the women ALWAYS had the thoughts but could never act on them out of fear of society's judgment. Now, even when it's much more acceptable they still have to stay at home and be good little girls?

People go on and on about having one life, living it to the fullest, doing what makes YOU happy and to hell with what everyone else thinks, but it is usually those people who end up being the most judgmental!
Life isn't fair, is it?

You can change your behavior, but you can't change (at least in the short-term) what the majority of men think.

Finally, what makes you think the quantity of sexual partners you have makes for a better, more enriching sex life?
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Old 07-15-2010, 08:01 PM
 
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I'm the most idealistic Capricorn I know, its ok MM . Agree to disagree, or maybe one day one of us will convert the other.

Opinions always change, just like the weather.
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