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Old 07-07-2010, 03:23 PM
 
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Lol, meant as a serious question: are there any good places in the Mid-Atlantic states left that anyone knows of, to geographically be able to find girls who are still interested in "old fashioned courtship" style relationships? (As in serious, committed, exclusive, steady, LTR, etc. kinds of relationships, and in particular where full physical intimacy is reserved until after a full 100% married commitment to each other?)

None of the total 40+ girls I've dated in my local area (near the DC area) over the years have really be seemed at all to be looking for anything like that If anything, they all really seemed to be much more interested in short-term / casual relationships, clubbing, pubbing, partying...that sort of thing.

Where geographically can a guy still be most likely to find the "good girl", the "kind angelic sweetheart", and essentially just a "genuinely nice girl", that you would want to take home to meet your Mom and Dad? (The kind of girl a guy would be thrilled to, and dream of, actually being in a real married relationship with?)
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Old 07-07-2010, 03:39 PM
 
Location: NH
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Lol, meant as a serious question: are there any good places in the Mid-Atlantic states left that anyone knows of, to geographically be able to find girls who are still interested in "old fashioned courtship" style relationships? (As in serious, committed, exclusive, steady, LTR, etc. kinds of relationships, and in particular where full physical intimacy is reserved until after a full 100% married commitment to each other?)

None of the total 40+ girls I've dated in my local area (near the DC area) over the years have really be seemed at all to be looking for anything like that If anything, they all really seemed to be much more interested in short-term / casual relationships, clubbing, pubbing, partying...that sort of thing.

Where geographically can a guy still be most likely to find the "good girl", the "kind angelic sweetheart", and essentially just a "genuinely nice girl", that you would want to take home to meet your Mom and Dad? (The kind of girl a guy would be thrilled to, and dream of, actually being in a real married relationship with?)
girls?

meetHelloKitty.com

women?

craigslist
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Old 07-07-2010, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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There isn't a town populated entirely by nice people. Sounds like you need to get involved in a church or a charity or volunteer where you might meet women who share your values.
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:55 PM
 
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There isn't a town populated entirely by nice people. Sounds like you need to get involved in a church or a charity or volunteer where you might meet women who share your values.
Have tried church extensively in the past...it never worked for me though
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Old 07-07-2010, 05:58 PM
 
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Just wanted to briefly clarify...when I said "girls", I meant it in an age-appropriate way of course (specifically I meant as in adult females, from only ages 24-32).

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girls?

meetHelloKitty.com

women?

craigslist
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Old 07-07-2010, 06:21 PM
 
Location: Happy wherever I am - Florida now
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Try small towns and the country if it's feasible for you.
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Old 07-07-2010, 07:02 PM
 
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Try small towns and the country if it's feasible for you.
So just drive around looking for women? Zoinks!! He should get a Mystery Van as well, and a Great Dane, and possibly a marijuana habit.

Like Scoob we are gonna go get some hot chicks.
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Old 07-07-2010, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Lol, meant as a serious question: are there any good places in the Mid-Atlantic states left that anyone knows of, to geographically be able to find girls who are still interested in "old fashioned courtship" style relationships? (As in serious, committed, exclusive, steady, LTR, etc. kinds of relationships, and in particular where full physical intimacy is reserved until after a full 100% married commitment to each other?)
It's all good with the exception of the bolded part, which is a tough sale... I'm not some nympho by any means, but there's no way I'm buying even a Knight in a sack.
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Old 07-07-2010, 07:33 PM
 
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It's all good with the exception of the bolded part, which is a tough sale... I'm not some nympho by any means, but there's no way I'm buying even a Knight in a sack.
The main reason for the physical intimacy issue until marriage for me really has largely to do with my own personal Christian religious and ethical beliefs -- by "being all the way physical" before being in a married relationship, it would make me feel sinful and very ashamed of myself, and the same as a serious loss of personal "honor" for me. Plus, it also prevents potential feelings of being emotionally devastated or hurt for me, if the relationship doesn't work out or result in a more permanent committed union.

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Old 07-07-2010, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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The main reason for the physical intimacy issue until marriage for me really has largely to do with my own personal Christian religious and ethical beliefs -- by "being all the way physical" before being in a married relationship, it would make me feel sinful and very ashamed of myself, and the same as a serious loss of personal "honor" for me. Plus, it also prevents potential feelings of being emotionally devastated or hurt for me, if the relationship doesn't work out or result in a more permanent committed union.
I can't relate, but I do understand. Perhaps there are other people who feel the way you do. Good luck!
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