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Society in general has a specific way to make women accomplish their gender role. I've noticed that if A Guy has many sex partners he is regarded as manly and A Woman who has many sex partners is regarded as a Nympho/promiscuous/ etc...(many pejorative names).
Do you fear developing a relationship with a woman/ a man who's had more sexual experience than you?
I personally wouldn't mind developing a relationship with a woman who's had more sexual experience than I do (i'm young and still have a lot to learn). When I talk about developing a relationship I include dating. My only limitation would be marriage it would depend on the circumstances and many other factors i'm not gonna discuss on this thread.
For me a woman with no experience is just boring - too much work to crack the shell. I like strong minded women, mostly those others guys fear to date because they know what they want.
That is just my opinion on the issue what do you Citizens of CD think about this
Do you fear developing a relationship with a woman/ a man who's had more sexual experience than you?
I suggest you NOT ask about how many prior partners she's had. She'll either lie to make you feel good, or tell you the truth, which could make you feel bad - or even judgmental - if it's a lot.
Experience is also a relative thing. Someone can have a lot of experience, with different people, and still not be very good sexually. Others may have had few experiences, but learned from someone really good. Or maybe they learn well from books.
Don't ask, don't tell - this is one area where it's probably good advice. So, don't worry about it, and just learn to enjoy. The only thing that really matters is that you're good together, not just in bed.
I suggest you NOT ask about how many prior partners she's had. She'll either lie to make you feel good, or tell you the truth, which could make you feel bad - or even judgmental - if it's a lot.
Experience is also a relative thing. Someone can have a lot of experience, with different people, and still not be very good sexually. Others may have had few experiences, but learned from someone really good. Or maybe they learn well from books.
Don't ask, don't tell - this is one area where it's probably good advice. So, don't worry about it, and just learn to enjoy. The only thing that really matters is that you're good together, not just in bed.
^^^^^^ This is a great advice.
OP, you really better off leaving the past in the past, because the past is not always what you want to hear and you KNOW that it will affect how you perceive a woman. If you didn't care about how many partner's she's had, you wouldn't even start this thread and wouldn't even give it much thought.
I noticed that you are only talking about dating and don't want to discuss the possibilities of marriage with a woman who has multiple partners? Why is that?
I also fail to see a correlation between having many sexual partners and being a strong woman with good sexual experience. This type of woman can be either yes, strong or actually the opposite, very weak.
Society in general has a specific way to make women accomplish their gender role. I've noticed that if A Guy has many sex partners he is regarded as manly and A Woman who has many sex partners is regarded as a Nympho/promiscuous/ etc...(many pejorative names).
Do you fear developing a relationship with a woman/ a man who's had more sexual experience than you?
I personally wouldn't mind developing a relationship with a woman who's had more sexual experience than I do (i'm young and still have a lot to learn). When I talk about developing a relationship I include dating. My only limitation would be marriage it would depend on the circumstances and many other factors i'm not gonna discuss on this thread.
For me a woman with no experience is just boring - too much work to crack the shell. I like strong minded women, mostly those others guys fear to date because they know what they want.
That is just my opinion on the issue what do you Citizens of CD think about this
Do you fear developing a relationship with a woman/ a man who's had more sexual experience than you?
You just figured this out now. I wouldn't want to be with a man who has had many partners. I don't find that attractive at all.
You just figured this out now. I wouldn't want to be with a man who has had many partners. I don't find that attractive at all.
Honestly, I'll admit that too. I prefer not to know than to know. It may hurt, Idk. I'm still a virgin, that should be enough. A man doesn't want to deal with me? I don't want to deal with him either. I have better things to do in life than to whine and cry.
I would have a relationship with a man who has more sexual experience than I do as long as it's not too much experience. Promiscuity is a big turn-off for me.
The latest anthropological research shows that female infidelity is good for the family, the community, and even the gene pool.
Another duh. Its ironic how the term infidelity is used. Its a judgement though the Eurasian civilization's lens. That is exactly what chimps do. Yet they will kill other rival chimps. So what is going on here I wonder?
Well since its a tribe, its an extended family and gene expression will be close. That is what cheetah males do in packs. Being brothers, they have little jealousy.
Yet why would a tribe do this? Did they have STDs? Did they have the same domesticated animals that blessed us with diseases? I suspect STDs are not a problem in small tribes. I also suspect it was hard to keep track of in large urban societies since Sumer. That is why they went with the gorilla mate guarding method in Babylon. The dominant culture of the world did come from Eurasian civilization. Grains and horses where a big help. Yet, emphasize "community" in the title.
I am amazed at the conclusion that sees promiscuity and not group marriage like I do in these small tribes. However again, not everyone has any sense in pattern recognition.
Yet in this environment, sorry, the men still want even more sex. In any relative terms, promiscuity is inherently male.
Still, David Buss places most of the blame for all this wanderlust on the guys. Bottom line, sperm are cheap and eggs are expensive, he says. He cites his own 1993 studies of college undergraduates. Women said they'd like maybe up to five partners in a lifetime. Men in various surveys ranged from 18 up to 1,000. Sure, both sexes have one-night stands. Both also can mate for life. But men tend toward variety and women will most often stay true to the stable, dependable provider, Buss claims.
Its also interesting how their culture fell apart when a foreign tribe was a dominant influence.
This is key:
The pattern is repeating itself with the Barà as missionaries import rural Catholic values. Beckerman says, "I suppose it doesn't mean there's any less fooling around, it's just that the fathers don't take responsibility for it and the mothers don't admit it."
When women have physical security, sex is a go with the hottest men.
Its also why female promiscuity has gone up under socialism especially in the lower classes. Men (and women) take responsibility through taxation. Yet in our system, one man has the sex while another man and career women take responsibility. That seems doomed to fail.
You just figured this out now. I wouldn't want to be with a man who has had many partners. I don't find that attractive at all.
Same here, except in the opposite gender sense, lol ...ideally, I would prefer to date girls who had not had many partners. A lot more romantic that way! Speaking as a guy...believe it or not, there are guys out there who are willing to "wait" on the physical intimacy part, and focus more on the "romance" part, if long-term dating and a more permanent relationship is what they're looking for
I was waiting for Gwyn to show up and he didn't disappoint. Once again his posts will require for me to actually use my brain for a change.
I spoke to a homosexual friend of mine and he said something interesting to me: "The only thing that stops a man from being promiscuous is a woman." I don't know how true it is (as I have seen plenty of men who are not promiscuous), but I thought it was interesting coming from a gay man himself to admit this.
You just figured this out now. I wouldn't want to be with a man who has had many partners. I don't find that attractive at all.
Yes me either. Well not a man. I don't FEAR a relationship, I just wouldn't want one. I'm too tired to type more, sorry.
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...ideally, I would prefer to date girls who had not had many partners. A lot more romantic that way! Speaking as a guy...believe it or not, there are guys out there who are willing to "wait" on the physical intimacy part, and focus more on the "romance" part, if long-term dating and a more permanent relationship is what they're looking for 
Once again his posts will require for me to actually use my brain for a change.
