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No, you just don't understand the mentality of your husband
Believe it or not, many men are capable of separating love from sex (most women are not.)
While what he did by cheating was certainly not very loving toward you - it is possible for men to have sex with other women when they still feel love for their wives.
Was this a one time event or did he have a whole other relationship with someone?
The circumstances this happened under greatly impact the direction of your future together.
This has only been discussed eleventy billion times on here. Page back, run a search, read the links previously posted. Oy!
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No, you just don't understand the mentality of your husband
Believe it or not, many men are capable of separating love from sex (most women are not.)
While what he did by cheating was certainly not very loving toward you - it is possible for men to have sex with other women when they still feel love for their wives.
Was this a one time event or did he have a whole other relationship with someone?
The circumstances this happened under greatly impact the direction of your future together.
You really should change your name to Dr LovesMountains, CPE (Crazy People Expert) and charge a fee for this. Can I start an account ?
This has only been discussed eleventy billion times on here. Page back, run a search, read the links previously posted. Oy!
That's awesome. Thanks. I'll make sure to do that. But, in the meantime, maybe this thread will get some new answers from new people who didn't see the old threads..
I'll put this rather crudely. Bear in mind I've never cheated on a GF.
Its really nothing all that mysterious. People want to sample new goods and want to keep what they have at home. I'm sure there are other reasons, but this is the reason when supposedly there isn't any other reason.
That's awesome. Thanks. I'll make sure to do that. But, in the meantime, maybe this thread will get some new answers from new people who didn't see the old threads..
OK here goes....
A couple is in the swinging community where they play as a couple with other couples they find attractive. Is this cheating if they are always truthful, never play around outside of their commitment and only do it with like minded secure committed couples who both find attractive and compatible ?
Does cheating occur only if you do it behind your partners back without their blessing or having recreational sex with your spouse and a few other close couples deemed to not be cheating ?
No, I've never cheated on my wife. Why? I'm not smart enough to manage one woman let alone two....
Ok, all kidding aside, I love my wife and I would never want to hurt her. I take my vows seriously. Plus, attractive young women throwing themselves at a 36 year old balding plumber is something that only happens in the porno movies..... Dang it......
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