would you stay married if he cheated on you ?

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Originally Posted by teardrop1955

After 32 years of marriage, he cheats with his first love from high school. He can't be with her she is married. Wants to stay with me for the comfort he says, but instant messages her 3 (or more) times a day for hours. She is 500 miles away in Ohio. He also told me if she is ever free to be with him I am out of here.
Don't think I can handle much more of this.

OMG! Are you serious! You need to take a minute to read what you write, It sounds like you have no respect for yourself and that you do not value yourself either. Take a long look in the mirrior and realize that you are a person of value! I would kick his sorry as to the CURB and tell him to go find a bridge in Ohio to live under! Then I would take a deep breath, smile at myself proudly, and live, laugh, and Love!