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do I get this right the only one who really doesn't know that mike is a dog is kelly?
1)Correct. Even Kelly's parents have told her to forget about him
mike has cheated on his girl friend because he didn't have the nads to break up? this is going on for a year, now he just dates both? supposedly "soon" mike should make up his mind between these tow women?
2) He has made his choice. He wants the second one. In his words "Kelly is someone to hang out with(when he's bored)". I frankly don't know why he won't say leave me alone when he dislikes Kelly.
you have know for a long time, has your girl friend know for a long time too? knew mike was cheating? your girl friend "can't or won't tell kelly the truth?
3) My GF has known as much as I have. Mike is not afraid to talk about Kelly/#2 in front of my GF. My GF can't tell Kelly whats going on since Kelly is crazy and won't believe anyone short of getting a picture of Mike and #2 making out(she's probably rationalize that too)
why the heck didn't you stop talking to mike if his actions bothered you so much?
4) I've been friends with Mike for 10 years, and while cheating is garbage, I'm not going to not be friends with him over something like that.
if either of you were truly worried about your friend kelly you would of told her long ago what was up. sometimes being a friend is telling the truth not BS, and telling people what they want to hear. sounds like you two should have said something long ago and if you continue not to say anything you are not good friends.
5) My GF wanted to tell a long time ago, but we tried to give Mike some time to do it on his own. When that was not going to happen, I told Kelly what was up(the process leading up to that shows how oblivious Kelly was/is).
tell kelly if she is stupid enough to believe mike that is on her. maybe she will figure it out one day. if he is so weak and she such a fool why would you want to hang with either of them.
6) I've told her that already. No point in saying it again. As for friendship, GF and Kelly are at 10 yrs and me and Mike are 10. Makes no sense to stop it over a personal thing like being oblivious or not manning up.
If this was happening to me and I found out my two "friends" knew all along, especially my girl friend, I would be dropping 3 people out of my life
7) Kelly is crazy and oblivious. She thanked me for telling initially however now in another dream world. Only way for her to learn is to get screwed over again, and realize(again) that all the hints were meant to help out. I obviously never wanted to get involved but it got to a point where it had to be stopped for both parties sakes. Mike is grateful to me for doing his dirty work and Kelly will eventually be grateful to me and my GF
I dated a guy and he was dating multiple women. My best friend is a guy. We all worked in the same building. My friend knew he was. I started feeling like he was seeing someone else. I asked my friend. Ummm, weeell, I mean. Childfree, I don't want to be that guy. Hey, your allegiance is to me. You are my friend.
He told me and I was devastated. You walk around like your dress is tucked in your pantyhose. Everyone knows, but you.
I dated a guy and he was dating multiple women. My best friend is a guy. We all worked in the same building. My friend knew he was. I started feeling like he was seeing someone else. I asked my friend. Ummm, weeell, I mean. Childfree, I don't want to be that guy. Hey, your allegiance is to me. You are my friend.
He told me and I was devastated. You walk around like your dress is tucked in your pantyhose. Everyone knows, but you.
I loved him for telling me.
Hopefully she'll eventually think that. She's thanked me/gf for trying to help but will be listening to her ex. I get being attached after 4.5 yrs but ignoring the facts, and friends and family that are telling you is just crazy in my book.
Wondering if you went through the same phase or not?
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