Well it appears I have been rejected by the Girl but I have to turn it into a learning experience (date, women)

[WestPhillyDude75]

The 1st date was Tuesday Night and She has only replied to one text saying-"How are you? So today is Saturday and it's confirmed that it's over and I should just move on. One thing I won't do again when I meet the next girl

Meeting someone right after work wearing a shirt and Tie because I think it's best if I go home first and put on a more relaxing outfit since it's a date and not a business meeting.

But rejection does suck and I just wish I wasn't so nervous on Tuesday which pobably made the date boring.



My only question is why reply to my text at all on Wednesday night if she wasn't going to ever reply back again?

[Norm24x7]

Women i tell ya man .. unprediktable !! .. everything happens for a reason .. now that u've learnt a lesson .. its another step towards graduation .. lol

[WestPhillyDude75]

Originally Posted by Norm24x7

Women i tell ya man .. unprediktable !! .. everything happens for a reason .. now that u've learnt a lesson .. its another step towards graduation .. lol

And I was looking for any good sign during the date like her wanting ro share her pie with me but I see now it was just a POLITE thing to do-lol

[picklejuice]

Are you still at it?

I'm thinking maybe you'd be better off in a monastery somewhere.

[WestPhillyDude75]

Originally Posted by picklejuice

Are you still at it?

I'm thinking maybe you'd be better off in a monastery somewhere.

i'm tired of being lonely

[Keeper]

It happens to all of us. That is the problem, you think you are the only one who doesn't get second dates. I had a guy email me for several weeks after our 1st date about how much he liked me Yadda yadda yadda and then out of the blue NOTHING. Not another word.. Be glad that she didn't lead you on for months and then dump you. Be glad that you didn't invest a lot into a relationship and she disappears with out a word. It was just a date.. what if you didn't like her, what would you do?

Honestly. You are your own worse enemy, you expect to fail, so you do. Just chuck it up to 'She just wasn't that into you' and move on. It was only ! date not a marriage.

I have been out with lots of men and sometimes it was me that wasn't interested and other times it was them. Don't make this such a big deal where you humiliate yourself by crying 'poor me'. Get up, dust yourself off and go out and meet someone else

[WestPhillyDude75]

Originally Posted by Keeper

It happens to all of us. That is the problem, you think you are the only one who doesn't get second dates. I had a guy email me for several weeks after our 1st date about how much he liked me Yadda yadda yadda and then out of the blue NOTHING. Not another word.. Be glad that she didn't lead you on for months and then dump you. Be glad that you didn't invest a lot into a relationship and she disappears with out a word. It was just a date.. what if you didn't like her, what would you do?

Honestly. You are your own worse enemy, you expect to fail, so you do. Just chuck it up to 'She just wasn't that into you' and move on. It was only ! date not a marriage.

I have been out with lots of men and sometimes it was me that wasn't interested and other times it was them. Don't make this such a big deal where you humiliate yourself by crying 'poor me'. Get up, dust yourself off and go out and meet someone else

it's just harder when the girl was your primary type which in my case was "pretty with
glasses". So it will take about another 4 days

[STT Resident]

"Well it appears I have been rejected by the Girl but I have to turn it into a learning experience."


Grasshopper, the day that you ever actually learn even a simple lesson about relationships will be the day when the grinning pig in the pink tutu slowly flies by your apartment window. A weekend is not a weekend without a new thread springing from your keyboard ...

[SD4020]

Originally Posted by TVandSportsGuy

i'm tired of being lonely

May I suggest a puppy?

[MAtheBanker]

Most respectable women don't respond to texts that say: "Hey baby...wanna walk on my back tonight?"

Just sayin'.