Originally Posted by Melissa78703
He has to be ethical. I know that this may go without saying for many people, but having gotten involved with someone who turned out to be extremely dishonest, ethics, decency and strong moral values are important to me. Character. That sums it up.
Secondmost important thing is that he has to be very discerning. I'm not interested in a guy who's been passed around. This suggests that he either can't be alone, has a low opinion of himself or ... well, that he puts physical pleasure over everything else, including common sense. These qualities are those I expect to see in a gigolo, not a prospective life mate.
This is interesting but to me very contradictory. I totally agree with the first pp. For me it's the same character
trumps everything.. low character is the absolute worst.
Discerning? Passed around? What if a lot of girls hit on him? Does that mean he has low character? I think it's kind of crazy to judge a guy who has had lots of experience with women as one who has a 'low self opinion', 'can't be alone', or 'places physical pleasure above all'.. Couldn't it be possible that he didn't find the kind of character in the woman he's looking for? I don't think in all cases an experienced man = gigolo.