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Old 08-11-2010, 09:25 PM
 
Location: Seattle
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Default Aquarius Male after breakup

I want to know how Aquarius men handle breakups.

I (Virgo) am struggling deeply and just wondering if anyone can give me some perspective on how this sign handles things after a relationship ends?

We were VERY much in love, but circumstances forced us apart. He wanted to be friends, but I couldn't do it. It hurt too much to just be friends. So he said goodbye and I haven't heard from him in 10 months. No contact completely.

Just interested in what he might be going through.... if anything at all.
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Old 08-11-2010, 09:30 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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Its apparent hes moved on and thats how he handled your decision, at least hes not stalking you.
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Old 08-11-2010, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Its apparent hes moved on and thats how he handled your decision, at least hes not stalking you.
I did have an experience of this nature with this sign.
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Old 08-11-2010, 09:38 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I did have an experience of this nature with this sign.
Interesting....its a fixed stubborn sign. I had an experience of this nature as well, not an Aquarius Sun, but every planet in Aquarius.
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Old 08-11-2010, 10:49 PM
 
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Well he did say goodbye, which means it was mutual. He's probably okay.
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Old 08-12-2010, 01:30 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, Nevada
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Aquarius is the sign of friendship. It's a much safer word for them to employ.
Or, to skirt around that word that that they feel might electrocute them (love/lover--Aquarius rules electricity) they'll dig out a word from Roget's Thesauras that they might feel more comfortable with, like co-habitant.

I was involved with some Aquarian flavored individual, and even many years into the relationship, I'd be introduced as his co-habitant.

With Aquarius, it's wise to just accept: "Let's just be friends". And with Aquarius, friends can have some very, hot, passionate sex, now and then
and wear matching "friendship" rings with diamonds and co-habit together for 50 years. And the grandchildren? They're classified as friends, too. Even a neighbor they only met once.

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Old 08-12-2010, 05:14 AM
 
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I want to know how Aquarius men handle breakups.

I (Virgo) am struggling deeply and just wondering if anyone can give me some perspective on how this sign handles things after a relationship ends?

We were VERY much in love, but circumstances forced us apart. He wanted to be friends, but I couldn't do it. It hurt too much to just be friends. So he said goodbye and I haven't heard from him in 10 months. No contact completely.

Just interested in what he might be going through.... if anything at all.
As a fellow Virgo (who understands the obsessive analysing and deep thinking you are no doubt engaging in) I would highly recommend you get out of the cerebral zone and into the physical zone. Forget about how he is handling the split (which he, as an Aquarian, has long moved on from) and get out there and enjoy life - join a book club, go to the gym, go shopping, call your friends. If you must stimulate the cerebral zone, go to a museum or art gallery.
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Old 08-12-2010, 05:42 AM
 
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Astrology is complete crap. Claiming someone is the way they are because of some arbitrary sign is nothing short of ridiculous.
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:30 AM
 
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Astrology is complete crap. Claiming someone is the way they are because of some arbitrary sign is nothing short of ridiculous.
Ya think?
LOL - ever hear of when in Rome do as the Romans? Meeting people on their level? Or so you think just insulting them works best? Whose advice was more helpful? Yours? Or mine?

PS. I am guessing you are a Taurus.
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Old 08-12-2010, 06:55 AM
 
Location: Broken Promise Land
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I want to know how Aquarius men handle breakups.

I (Virgo) am struggling deeply and just wondering if anyone can give me some perspective on how this sign handles things after a relationship ends?

We were VERY much in love, but circumstances forced us apart. He wanted to be friends, but I couldn't do it. It hurt too much to just be friends. So he said goodbye and I haven't heard from him in 10 months. No contact completely.

Just interested in what he might be going through.... if anything at all.
When an Aquarius man wants to break up with you, he thinks it's all part of some diving scheme, and he rarely thinks twice. You are just expected to understand and go along with it. He'll say, "It just wasn't meant to be". He wants to go from boyfriend to best friend. He is famous for abrupt exits and fade-aways. Aquarius men may be sensitive, but when they are done, they feel no need to stick around especially if you don't want to be friends.

If you haven't heard from him in 10 months, he's probably moved on. There is nothing worse to an Aquarius man than a heavy, tearful, emotional good-bye. It will send him into total shutdown. If he thinks you won't go along with the whole "let's just be friends" idea, he'd rather just vanish and let you figure it out.

An Aquarius will stalk you if they still want to be with you and you've broken up. They will try to talk you out of it and do whatever they can to still be in your life. They are worse than a Scorpio when it comes to holding on. Him disappearing for so long means he's over it.

So, have yourself one last cry over him and then be glad you do not have to deal with his flakiness and inconsistency, immaturity, sudden flashes of temper, waiting forever for him to make up his mind over you, his refusal to learn from his mistakes, his inability to relax, his wandering eye, the hot and cold thing he does, his disappearing acts, and all his many many "she's just a friend" girlfriends he has.

I've been involved with two Aquarius boys. One, I dumped and he freaked out. He followed me around for months. He would call all the time and make snarky comments about me to our friends. The other just kind of disappeared on me.
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