How do I know when a guy is losing interest? (dates, women)
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I met a guy about a month ago. We went on a few dates, then he went on vacation for 4 weeks. When he got back, we met up once, but he didn't make another date. So I made a date. Everything went really well, he was affectionate and talked like we're seeing each other again, and now I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. We haven't had sex, but definitely fooled around quite a bit. He used to make dates the day after we meet up or even before we end a date. Has he lost interest?
I would just call him and say something like you've had a great time with him and want to continue to see him. Some guys will simply stop calling and texting which really sucks when they aren't interested anymore, although sometimes guys will stop calling for a few days so they don't seem needy or pushy. It's all very confusing so I would just ask in a very nice way and let him know you don't want to put any pressure on him, but you are interested in continuing things. Then back off and let him go from there. I have done the not calling for a couple of days thing myself because I have not wanted to seem clingy (not sure if this is a great strategy, but I've done it) but if he is into you he will be happy to hear from you and will be excited about going out again.
I met a guy about a month ago. We went on a few dates, then he went on vacation for 4 weeks. When he got back, we met up once, but he didn't make another date. So I made a date. Everything went really well, he was affectionate and talked like we're seeing each other again, and now I haven't heard from him in a couple of days. We haven't had sex, but definitely fooled around quite a bit. He used to make dates the day after we meet up or even before we end a date. Has he lost interest?
looking at watch alot, does not come in when he drops you off, the dinner dates are less expensive and less often. seems distracted alot. very concerned about you knowing he is a good person. but most important, does not interrupt when you blather.
Here is a simple test. look at where their feet are pointed. If they are pointing towards the door thats where they want to head. if they aren't towards you then the interest just isn't there.
You've already answered your own question. The fact that you started this thread means you know he is losing interest.
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