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Old 08-25-2010, 09:35 PM
 
Location: Happy wherever I am - Florida now
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Chris, glad you're making progress. I've noticed that when a long term marriage ends (death or divorce) the person for some reason seems to revisit the place just before that person entered their lives as a new mental starting point which is what seems to be happening to you.

I'm hoping for your sake that this is just a bump in the road and you can work things out with your wife. I'm also hoping that if she does decide to leave that you will have seperated mentally from the 'two of us are one being in the same' so that she doesn't hurt you as badly, which I think you're also realizing.
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Old 09-14-2010, 12:01 PM
 
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I really feel for you! Some times we think the pain of a broken heart will last forever; but the truth is you are getting better with each day that goes by. One day you will look back on all of this and feel less if any pain. So take it one day at a time. Best of luck!
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Old 09-14-2010, 08:08 PM
 
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He should not be blindsided when his wife exposes his son to a "new daddy" and they begin cohabitating like one big happy family. I have seen it happen so very many times. She is manipulating the situation like a master so she can have it all.

The script is written. Heph is the only one who can change it, and to do so he needs to know where this is all going. He needs thr truth so he can to protect and plan. There is a child involved.
No I shouldn't. I've been blindsided once. I don't want it to happen again.

I'm in a bad place at the moment. And I'm going to be here for a while. Long story but this won't be getting better for a long time. Games games games. To quote John Lennon -- "Nothing is real."

Thank you to everyone who sent a private message.
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